The Reason I Jump: The Inner Voice of a Thirteen-Year-Old Boy with Autism

The Reason I Jump: The Inner Voice of a Thirteen-Year-Old Boy with Autism

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  • Author:Naoki Higashida
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Summary

“One of the most remarkable books I’ve ever read。 It’s truly moving, eye-opening, incredibly vivid。”—Jon Stewart, The Daily Show

NAMED ONE OF THE BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR BY
NPR • The Wall Street Journal • Bloomberg Business • Bookish

FINALIST FOR THE BOOKS FOR A BETTER LIFE FIRST BOOK AWARD • NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER

You’ve never read a book like The Reason I Jump。 Written by Naoki Higashida, a very smart, very self-aware, and very charming thirteen-year-old boy with autism, it is a one-of-a-kind memoir that demonstrates how an autistic mind thinks, feels, perceives, and responds in ways few of us can imagine。 Parents and family members who never thought they could get inside the head of their autistic loved one at last have a way to break through to the curious, subtle, and complex life within。
 
Using an alphabet grid to painstakingly construct words, sentences, and thoughts that he is unable to speak out loud, Naoki answers even the most delicate questions that people want to know。 Questions such as: “Why do people with autism talk so loudly and weirdly?” “Why do you line up your toy cars and blocks?” “Why don’t you make eye contact when you’re talking?” and “What’s the reason you jump?” (Naoki’s answer: “When I’m jumping, it’s as if my feelings are going upward to the sky。”) With disarming honesty and a generous heart, Naoki shares his unique point of view on not only autism but life itself。 His insights—into the mystery of words, the wonders of laughter, and the elusiveness of memory—are so startling, so strange, and so powerful that you will never look at the world the same way again。
 
In his introduction, bestselling novelist David Mitchell writes that Naoki’s words allowed him to feel, for the first time, as if his own autistic child was explaining what was happening in his mind。 “It is no exaggeration to say that The Reason I Jump allowed me to round a corner in our relationship。” This translation was a labor of love by David and his wife, KA Yoshida, so they’d be able to share that feeling with friends, the wider autism community, and beyond。 Naoki’s book, in its beauty, truthfulness, and simplicity, is a gift to be shared。

Praise for The Reason I Jump

“This is an intimate book, one that brings readers right into an autistic mind。”Chicago Tribune (Editor’s Choice)

“Amazing times a million。”—Whoopi Goldberg, People

The Reason I Jump is a Rosetta stone。 。 。 。 This book takes about ninety minutes to read, and it will stretch your vision of what it is to be human。”—Andrew Solomon, The Times (U。K。)

“Extraordinary, moving, and jeweled with epiphanies。” —The Boston Globe
 
“Small but profound 。 。 。 [Higashida’s] startling, moving insights offer a rare look inside the autistic mind。”Parade


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Reviews

Yuki Shimmyo

Q39 Why do you like being in the water?In the water it's so quiet and I'm so free and happy there。 Nobody hassles us in the water, and it's as if we've got all the time in the world。 Whether we stay in one place or whether we're swimming about, when we're in the water we can be really at one with the pulse of time。 Outside of the water there's always too much stimulation for our eyes and for our ears, and it's impossible for us to guess how long one second is or how long an hour takes。People wit Q39 Why do you like being in the water?In the water it's so quiet and I'm so free and happy there。 Nobody hassles us in the water, and it's as if we've got all the time in the world。 Whether we stay in one place or whether we're swimming about, when we're in the water we can be really at one with the pulse of time。 Outside of the water there's always too much stimulation for our eyes and for our ears, and it's impossible for us to guess how long one second is or how long an hour takes。People with autism have no freedom。 The reason is that we are a different kind of human, born with primeval senses。 We are outside the normal flow of time, we can't express ourselves, and our bodies are hurtling us through life。 If only we could go back to that distant, distant, watery past--then we'd all be able to live as contentedly, and as freely as you lot!- Naoki Higashida, THE REASON I JUMP: The Inner Voice of a Thirteen-Year-Old Boy with Autism (2007/2013) 。。。more

Mika

This book is really special。 Not only had I received a copy from a friend, but also because it talks about a topic very close to my heart: autism。 As special education teacher, I know how to handle children with autism and all I knew came from the books I have read, books that were written by experts。 This one tops my list though。 Because this came from someone who has autism。 It gave me the point of view of an individual with autism。 I would totally recommend it to everyone。

Alex

It feels like a real gift to hear from someone with autism talk about what it’s like to live with autism。 The way Naoki Higashida frames everyday life through his experience made me more thoughtful about the infinite complex interactions we take for granted and about how I expect others (neurotypical and neurodivergent) to experience it too。I don’t know much about autism and I’m grateful to start with this on the way to learn more!

Rebecca

“The Reason I Jump” is a quick, educational read intended to give the reader a little bit of an insight into the mid of a child with autism。 I found quite a lot of the book to be overgeneralised, but I did find it to be poignant and really interesting in places。 3 stars!My full review: https://whatrebeccasread。wordpress。co。。。 “The Reason I Jump” is a quick, educational read intended to give the reader a little bit of an insight into the mid of a child with autism。 I found quite a lot of the book to be overgeneralised, but I did find it to be poignant and really interesting in places。 3 stars!My full review: https://whatrebeccasread。wordpress。co。。。 。。。more

Naomi

Un livre magnifique, à lire d'urgence ! Pour mieux comprendre l'autisme 💪🏼 Un livre magnifique, à lire d'urgence ! Pour mieux comprendre l'autisme 💪🏼 。。。more

Ambia

What a beautiful book。 As someone with an autistic sibling, this book really spoke to me。 It did what it intended to: it helped me see the world as my autistic sibling might and helped me understand in such a way that has made me able to care for him better。 I know some people dispute whether Naoki Higashida wrote this book, which seems pretty ableist to me, I’m completely willing to believe he did and its a great book。 It’s not an autobiography, it’s sort of memoir-like but written by someone o What a beautiful book。 As someone with an autistic sibling, this book really spoke to me。 It did what it intended to: it helped me see the world as my autistic sibling might and helped me understand in such a way that has made me able to care for him better。 I know some people dispute whether Naoki Higashida wrote this book, which seems pretty ableist to me, I’m completely willing to believe he did and its a great book。 It’s not an autobiography, it’s sort of memoir-like but written by someone of only 13 years。 It’s also an FAQ about what it is like being autistic with a few fables mixed in here and there。 There is also a short story at the end which manages to be so beautifully poignant and heart-wrenching。 Anyone who believes autistic people are simple in their emotions or have very little emotional understanding have never met an autistic person or have never bothered to take the time to see them。 Naoki reminds me so much of my sibling, he seems to have many of the same interests and behavioural patterns, but as I know well, autism is different for everyone。 Each little answer sheds so much light upon the experience of being autistic and shows clearly that he is trying and also he doesn’t need to try to be normal。 His own experience of the world, especially when it comes to nature and in the moments he can be himself, are wonderful。 There are also moments that made me want to cry。 When things are so difficult for him and he can’t help but feel sad and ashamed about what he thinks is causing other people harm。 He is sensitive and he can feel when other people are frustrated, angry or sad; an dit effects him deeply。 I’m so damn glad I read this book。 I learnt a lot about why autistic people might repeat the same things over and over (Q3,Q4), why it seems the repeat bad behaviour (Q5), why autistic people communicate the way they do (Q7-Q10), this stereotype that autistic people like to be on their own (Q13- my brother does his own thing but he likes to be around people when he’s doing it anyway), the ecstatic joys (Q18), the terrible lows (Q20, Q23), the reason he jumps (Q25), how autistic people feel themselves to be in the world (Q27-Q34), their behaviours (Q37-Q42), what they enjoy (Q45-Q47), repetitive behaviours (Q52- Q54), why all the movement (Q55), what might cause meltdowns (Q57) and a lot of ideas about how to love and care for an autistic person better。The book is also full of interesting art, but i think they would have been better in colour。 。。。more

Raquel Evans

The introduction irritated me, but I found the book itself to be helpful in understanding the thoughts and feelings of those on the more extreme end of the autism spectrum, as well as interesting to think through what did and didn't apply to myself。 (I suspect I'm on slightly on the spectrum myself, though I've never had a diagnosis。) I especially appreciated that the author generally explained his struggles in terms of things that 'take a lot of practice to learn' rather than portraying all the The introduction irritated me, but I found the book itself to be helpful in understanding the thoughts and feelings of those on the more extreme end of the autism spectrum, as well as interesting to think through what did and didn't apply to myself。 (I suspect I'm on slightly on the spectrum myself, though I've never had a diagnosis。) I especially appreciated that the author generally explained his struggles in terms of things that 'take a lot of practice to learn' rather than portraying all the behaviors that stem from autism as intrinsic and irrevocable。 (Being clear that being autistic isn't something that can or should be unlearned, but that things like 'meltdowns' can slowly be unlearned。)There are a few references to evolution or people with autism as 'primal humans', but with that in mind as a discussion topic, there's nothing that would prevent even a younger child from being able to read this book and understand better how other people's brains can work。 The story after the main part of the book does contain death, grief, reincarnation, and odd depictions of heaven and God, so may not be as suitable for all younger children。 。。。more

Sarah

This is a book that definitely needs to be in the world, and I'm glad it is! I feel like I learned from it and my perspective of autism has changed。 I especially enjoyed reading the fiction story at the end of the book, which I am still pondering。 This book was very thought-provoking and insightful, and I'm grateful for Naoki's words。 I may even revisit this book in a little while, because his writing was pleasant to read, and he had some very moving quotes。 I'd recommend this book to everyone, This is a book that definitely needs to be in the world, and I'm glad it is! I feel like I learned from it and my perspective of autism has changed。 I especially enjoyed reading the fiction story at the end of the book, which I am still pondering。 This book was very thought-provoking and insightful, and I'm grateful for Naoki's words。 I may even revisit this book in a little while, because his writing was pleasant to read, and he had some very moving quotes。 I'd recommend this book to everyone, and I believe that this is an important read :) 。。。more

Eugenia de Teba

interesante, revelador y sin duda deja recapacitando

Paty Pantoja

Pero qué libro tan hermoso, una historia que resuelve dudas y te permite conocer el autismo desde el punto de vista de alguien con autismo, su conexión con la naturaleza y con la vida es increíble。 Y hablar de la historia que Naoki escribe al final me da esperanza de que la vida es extraordinaria y puede tomar el camino que tú quieras tanto para ayudar a otros o volver a vivirla, sin importar si hablas o no, si estás o no estás。

Lghamilton

Fascinating Q&A written by a young man with autism who is essentially non-verbal, but communicates with an alphabet board。 I found it amazing that he can accurately describe "normal" feelings and decisions and actions, and then describe his own feelings, experiences and emotions。 Fascinating Q&A written by a young man with autism who is essentially non-verbal, but communicates with an alphabet board。 I found it amazing that he can accurately describe "normal" feelings and decisions and actions, and then describe his own feelings, experiences and emotions。 。。。more

Courtney

This book is a great resource if you have a loved one with autism and want to try to understand their thinking。 To know this was written by a 13 year old with autism is just incredible。 Children and adults on the spectrum are usually so misunderstood and labeled as bad or weird, I really loved reading personal thoughts and expression on certain behaviors。

Conor Flynn

As advertised, this is a good perspective on what life looks like from the life of an autistic boy。 It is not the most enjoyable or entertaining book。

Katie

As a mom of a non speaking boy with autism, this book is just what I needed to read。 I want to give it to everyone I know, to get a glimpse into the mind of the author: what a blessing!!! Incredibly moving and such an important read。 It broke my heart while also giving me hope。 And the takeaway that he mentioned time and time again? NEVER give up hope。 💗“Please never give up on us。”“When we look at nature, we receive a sort of permission to be alive in this world, and our entire bodies get recha As a mom of a non speaking boy with autism, this book is just what I needed to read。 I want to give it to everyone I know, to get a glimpse into the mind of the author: what a blessing!!! Incredibly moving and such an important read。 It broke my heart while also giving me hope。 And the takeaway that he mentioned time and time again? NEVER give up hope。 💗“Please never give up on us。”“When we look at nature, we receive a sort of permission to be alive in this world, and our entire bodies get recharged。” 。。。more

Daniel

“if, by our being here, we could help the people of the world remember what truly matters for the Earth, that would give us a quiet pleasure”

Emilie

Very interesting as a teacher and parent, and refreshing to hear from someone with autism directly。

Denitsa

I am not sure how to rate this book。。 3。75⭐️? 🤔🤷🏻‍♀️

Maryam

A must-read for everyone, specifically parents。

Krusiv

Definitely buying a physical copy of this as soon as I can。 Books like this are an invaluable resource for those of us who want to help the people around us。 I've also seen cases where this book has helped people with autism understand themselves better, whether it's through empathy in the text or self-diagnosis (partial or otherwise)。 Definitely buying a physical copy of this as soon as I can。 Books like this are an invaluable resource for those of us who want to help the people around us。 I've also seen cases where this book has helped people with autism understand themselves better, whether it's through empathy in the text or self-diagnosis (partial or otherwise)。 。。。more

Esther Oluwatobi

Yea, all through out this book I found myself saying 'oh my God, yes,' Yea, all through out this book I found myself saying 'oh my God, yes,' 。。。more

MaryAnne

Fascinating read。 To my knowledge there is very little literature written by those with autism about their lives。 Temple Grandin would be an exception。

Jennifer

I feel like this should be essential reading for all educators。

Anitalia Payne

I’m so grateful I discovered this book。 Along the reading, I feel like I’m entering my son’s daily basis journal。 Almost all of the whole book has well described what’s in their mind, the mind of autistic child。 This is a great book written by Naoki Higashida, a thirteen year old boy who’s autistic。 David Mitchell who has an autistic son found this book and got an English translation published。 If you have any chance to read this book, the interview between him and Naoki is also important to rea I’m so grateful I discovered this book。 Along the reading, I feel like I’m entering my son’s daily basis journal。 Almost all of the whole book has well described what’s in their mind, the mind of autistic child。 This is a great book written by Naoki Higashida, a thirteen year old boy who’s autistic。 David Mitchell who has an autistic son found this book and got an English translation published。 If you have any chance to read this book, the interview between him and Naoki is also important to read。Every autistic person is different, I’m not an expert in the autism world, but as a mother of an autistic child, this book gave me personal touch, it hugged me tight like I hug my own child。 To other readers, this book can give a simple and complete introduction to “what is autism” from a thirteen year old boy point of view。 Highly recommended for parents with autistic children or family members, teachers, any person who wants to learn about autism。 This simple book will tell us the big story of being autistic。“But please, whatever you do, don't give up on us。 We need your help”5 stars 。。。more

Jenny

Amazing view of life from a person on the spectrum。 Gave me great insight into my own children and some of the clients I see。 I encourage anyone who loves someone on the spectrum or works with someone on the spectrum to read this book!

Rumi Bossche

In just two hours i learned so much i did not know before about autism。

Coty

In 2020, I was diagnosed with Autism and this book spoke to me。 People with Autism have an incredibly difficult time expressing themselves。 Writing tends to be a medium that allows us to express ourselves more。 The author takes wonderful advantage of this in order to educate others on what it feels to be autistic。

Sarah

What an eye opening book。 Very moving and thought provoking。

Lis

An absolute must read!

Jennifer

Maybe it was the translation, but this book was a bit confusing for me I terms of structure。 I’m still not clear what the ending was about。 An interesting inner voice perspective of what it is like living with autism。 A lot of overgeneralization though?

Bharat

The world is full of multiple languages, cultures, and stories from everywhere。 In today’s English-dominated world, the stories from other regions can easily get lost despite the fact they are a lot powerful and pertinent to all of us。 This is why translation is of utmost importance to bring stories from all over to the forefront。This month is Autism Awareness month。 Autism is one of the less understood human conditions all over。 This is why, when someone translates a Japanese kid’s stories into The world is full of multiple languages, cultures, and stories from everywhere。 In today’s English-dominated world, the stories from other regions can easily get lost despite the fact they are a lot powerful and pertinent to all of us。 This is why translation is of utmost importance to bring stories from all over to the forefront。This month is Autism Awareness month。 Autism is one of the less understood human conditions all over。 This is why, when someone translates a Japanese kid’s stories into English it is a Marvellous achievement。 The preface aptly says though there are many illuminating books on autism by those who had autism, they are written when they were adults and sorted out their lives。 This is why it is important to listen to the versions of someone who is much younger and growing up and grappling with the machinations of adulthood。It is here, that “The Reason I Jump: The Inner Voice of a Thirteen-Year-Old Boy With Autism,” strikes all the right chord with respect to chronicling the beautiful stories and answers to questions on autism。 Naoki Higashida’s book is a masterful and brilliant introduction to the world of an autistic person。 。。。more