Good Vibes, Good Life: How Self-Love Is the Key to Unlocking Your Greatness
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Summary
Vex King is leading a revolution for the next generation of spiritual seekers。 An online inspiration to hundreds of thousands of people， Vex is a role model for young people seeking a new way of living。 Vex beat all the odds of an incredibly difficult childhood - his family were often homeless and he suffered racist abuse in a violent neighbourhood。 Despite these challenges， Vex went on to complete university and thrive in his career。 His work brought him into contact with people who started asking him for life advice and Vex began sharing his ideas through social media。 His positive and encouraging posts very quickly began to attract a highly engaged following who related to his messages and looked to Vex for guidance。 This book is a collection of Vex's most popular wisdom。 It is a guide to transforming negative emotions to positive ones， developing self-love， mind mastery， and goal setting， and finding a deeper purpose in life。 On social media， Vex is asked the same questions over and over again。 This book is the answer to these key questions which Vex has collected over the years- - How have you become so positive and happy， especially after such a devastating upbringing - and how can I do the same？ - How do I transform negative emotions into positive ones？ - How can I truly love myself， and what does it mean？ - How should I handle negative people， especially my loved ones？ - Why aren't my goals manifesting？ - Why doesn't life always go to plan？ - What is my purpose in life and how do I find it？ - What is the true meaning of happiness？ Good Vibes， Good Life shares deep spiritual knowledge in a way that's easy to understand， while providing practical solutions。 Down-to-earth and relatable， this book is for those seeking a way out of darkness and the tools to build a new life。 Author BiographyVex King is a young British Indian social influencer， mind coach， writer， and lifestyle entrepreneur。 He is the owner of the Bon Vita lifestyle brand， which
Reviews
angelina
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the message this book is trying to say was amazing。 i love this book so much。 i tabbed so many pages so i can reference back to them。 i feel so much better about who i am & my purpose after reading。 definitely read！！！
Matthew J。 Pallett
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If you are in the frame of mind whereby you need to read a book such as this， the chances are the over-simplification of his ideas are quite preferable in getting your racing mind to focus。 I agree with a few of the reviewers in that his ideas are quite shallow but you must bear in mind it wasn't very long ago he was being pushed around in a pram。 Sometimes， simplification is exactly what one needs。I still have a certain resistance to his whole ego thing， but， if you can see past that， I feel Ve If you are in the frame of mind whereby you need to read a book such as this， the chances are the over-simplification of his ideas are quite preferable in getting your racing mind to focus。 I agree with a few of the reviewers in that his ideas are quite shallow but you must bear in mind it wasn't very long ago he was being pushed around in a pram。 Sometimes， simplification is exactly what one needs。I still have a certain resistance to his whole ego thing， but， if you can see past that， I feel Vex's wisdom extends far beyond his years。 4/5。 。。。more
Rochi
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Wow！ Este es el primer libro que leo sobre self help。 Lo conocí por tiktok y me gustó el mensaje que daba el libro entonces decidí leerlo， sin mucha expectativa porque no conocía mucho sobre este género。 La verdad aprendí muchas cosas que planeo aplicar en mi vida diaria y descubrí acciones， comportamientos y pensamientos que tengo， que no sabía que afectaban a lo que yo reflejo en la vida。 Me encanto este libro y me abrió a un nuevo mundo que planeo explorar y aprender muchísimo。 Este libro me Wow！ Este es el primer libro que leo sobre self help。 Lo conocí por tiktok y me gustó el mensaje que daba el libro entonces decidí leerlo， sin mucha expectativa porque no conocía mucho sobre este género。 La verdad aprendí muchas cosas que planeo aplicar en mi vida diaria y descubrí acciones， comportamientos y pensamientos que tengo， que no sabía que afectaban a lo que yo reflejo en la vida。 Me encanto este libro y me abrió a un nuevo mundo que planeo explorar y aprender muchísimo。 Este libro me dejo la enseñanza de que para ser exitoso no necesitas cosas materiales que lo demuestren （como la plata） sino que vos te tenes que sentir satisfecho con vos mismo， estar feliz siempre con lo que sos y tenes， sin tener que demostrar nada a nadie。 Esa es la meta en la vida， amarse tal como uno es y descubrir lo que verdaderamente nos apasiona， seguir lo que uno siente， sin escuchar las opiniones de los demás。 Vivir el presente， no esperar al fin de semana o a unas vacaciones。 Sino que vivir todo los días al máximo， amando lo qué haces y agradeciendo lo que tenemos🤍 。。。more
Francesca
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I’m surprised the phrases “don’t stick a fork in a toaster” or “don’t forget to look both ways before crossing the road” didn’t come in to this book - a very long winded and sometimes patronising outlook on life which ends in being given an analogy of a football finding it’s purpose by being kicked in the air
Julie Leask
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Anider cult？ 😂
Giovanna
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Some nice quotes but nothing profound。 I finished it more out of obligation and hoping it would get better。 Reads more like an Instagram opportunity rather than life changing stuff。
Samaa
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I wish if everyone could read this peaceful book。
Mackenzie Myers
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I did not finish this book。 I didn't see a point。 I'm sure this is a fantastic introductory book for the LOA， but for someone （this isn't meant to be patronizing） who is already familiar with the concept， it probably won't give you any new foresights。 You can tell it is written to be instagrammable and aesthetically pleasing， but that is not what I look for in a book。 I think a better， more valuable intro to the LOA， manifesting， vibrations， etc。 is The Secret。 Better books include， Man's Search I did not finish this book。 I didn't see a point。 I'm sure this is a fantastic introductory book for the LOA， but for someone （this isn't meant to be patronizing） who is already familiar with the concept， it probably won't give you any new foresights。 You can tell it is written to be instagrammable and aesthetically pleasing， but that is not what I look for in a book。 I think a better， more valuable intro to the LOA， manifesting， vibrations， etc。 is The Secret。 Better books include， Man's Search for Meaning， The Four Agreements， and so on。 I'm sure this book will have worth to a large audience but if you are already familiar with the LOA don't waste your time unless you just want it because it will look pretty on your shelf。 。。。more
Emel Buldu
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Very good。 Will be recommending。 Only gripe with it is that it tells you alot of things you can do to improve your life but no necessarily how to do them，other than that I really enjoyed and found it very easy to read。
Becca S
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* I read the paperback edition of this book and this page count was the closest to the physical edition I had so I went with this one。This book is the best non-fiction/self-help book I’ve ever read - I haven’t read many because I always found them daunting but GV，GL is so easy to read and understand and there are so many good quotes throughout。I related to many of the situations used throughout and picked up so many good tips and tricks for how to lead a more positive life where I focus on my ow * I read the paperback edition of this book and this page count was the closest to the physical edition I had so I went with this one。This book is the best non-fiction/self-help book I’ve ever read - I haven’t read many because I always found them daunting but GV，GL is so easy to read and understand and there are so many good quotes throughout。I related to many of the situations used throughout and picked up so many good tips and tricks for how to lead a more positive life where I focus on my own happiness and well-being。 There were so many useful tips on how to get over things which have happened in the past and the use of real life situations helped me see how I can tackle my thoughts and emotions from the past and use them to better my future。I highly recommend everyone reads GV，GL - I’m pretty sure everyone can take something away from it。 It’s easy to read and understand and handy to pick up now and then when you need advice or guidance。 5* ☺️ 。。。more
Pryscilla Dechaviony
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Actual rating: 3。5 starsI would like to say I’m grateful for this book on giving me insight， great advices， and a reminder to be present and accomplish my goals little by little。It was a light read， lots of good quotes， and relatable。 I definitely jotted down the advices to go over and implement in my daily life， such as mediation。
Chelcee
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This book was so amazing。 It taught me to get new friends with a higher calling， it also taught me to make me a priority in a world that puts so much pressure on women to do so much for others。
Aresh Ramin
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Life changing。 If you want to or have started your journey to self-love， this book will give you a great foundation。
Manoj Arora
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This is what I learnt from the book:（1） The good， the bad and the ugly events are all a part of who I have become。（2） We cannot define where greatness begins or ends。 We can only strive to become better。（3） Stop trying to impress people。 Impress yourself， stretch yourself， test yourself。 Be your best version。 Outdoing yourself is your daily task。 You are competing with your version of yesterday。（4） Self-love is all about first accepting yourself unconditionally and then making positive changes t This is what I learnt from the book:（1） The good， the bad and the ugly events are all a part of who I have become。（2） We cannot define where greatness begins or ends。 We can only strive to become better。（3） Stop trying to impress people。 Impress yourself， stretch yourself， test yourself。 Be your best version。 Outdoing yourself is your daily task。 You are competing with your version of yesterday。（4） Self-love is all about first accepting yourself unconditionally and then making positive changes to become even better。 Same way， you can love any of your family members - accept them unconditionally， and encourage them to be even better。（5） The vibrations we put out， are always pulling in stuff that is vibrating at a similar frequency - just like tuning into a radio station。 So， if you consciously start feeling joyful， you will attract more of it。 The common misconception is that you will start feeling good only once you have what you want。 The truth is that you can feel good right now， and also attract more of it。（6） Staying around positive people， when you are down， is an excellent antidote to absorb some of their positive energy， then start radiating that positive energy yourself and thus attracting more of it from the universe。 It is much easier to see the good in life when you are around positive people。（7） Smile more often。 Even if you fake a smile， you can trick your brain into thinking that you are happy， and thereby releasing feel-good hormones called endorphins， which make you feel better in return。（8） Most judgments start from hatred， which is a low vibrational state。 It only leads to attracting unpleasant experiences in our life。（9） Greatness starts with being grateful。 In order to truly feel grateful towards any particular thing， imagine your life in its absence， as deep as you can think， and you will soon realize how grateful you truly have been。（10） Meditation is easy。 It is all about listening to life - breath， sounds， colors around us at this very moment。（11） Your longest relationship in life is with your own self。 If you can manage this relationship well， give it the importance it deserves， can you manage other relationships well。（12） If someone says that they are hurt by your actions， then you must believe what they are saying rather than ignore their viewpoint just because you did not feel anything hurting in what you said。 It's because you have violated their personal values。 Accepting that they are hurt will change your behavior to empathy。（13） All relationships require work。 They require tremendous understanding and endless communication。 In spite of all this， they can be very challenging。 None of us is perfect。 So， no relationship is perfect。（14） You will know that it is your soul talking to you when you arrive at the answer without going through the reasoning process。 （15） Everyone's perspective， including our own， is limited and subjective。 It is based on what we gather and process from all around us。 So， be open to learning a new perspective every time you meet someone。（16） There is no way you can avoid negativity in your life。 The more people you are connected with， the more negativity would be thrown at you。 But no one can hurt you without your permission。 The best response to negativity thrown at you is silence and joy。 This will make the haters feel that they are banging against a wall that does not respond。 They will hurt themselves and refrain after some time。[Recommended Book: Happiness Unlimited]（17） You cannot please everyone， neither you should even attempt it。 Do not be too harsh on yourself。（18） Your purpose is not to be in a job you dislike for the rest of your life。 Harmful workplaces push us into an unhealthy mental state， leading to an unhealthy physical state。（19） You won't be important to all the people all the time， and that's why you have to be important to yourself。 Learn to enjoy your own company。 （20） You have done things some people said you could never do。 You have also done things even you thought you may never be able to do。 Appreciate yourself。 Pat yourself。 Go out and celebrate。（21） Either way， you are going to be judged， whether you live your life on your own terms， or other people's。（22） Embrace your uniqueness。 Are you considered weird？ Awesome。（23） Forgive yourself for all the bad decisions you made， for the lack of belief， for hurting others and yourself。 Forgive yourself for everything。 Important is to move forward with a better mindset。（24） You cannot expect others to be kind to you if you are not kind to yourself。 （25） When you forgive people for past mistakes， you cannot， and do not improve the past。 You improve your present and future by creating positive vibes。 Forgiving someone is for your better life。（26） You cannot move forward with the thoughts that hold you back。（27） Once you mute the noise of the world， you would realize that there is nothing that you cannot do。（28） If you cannot change the situation， change your perception of it。 That is where your personal power is。 Take charge。（29） Your job is not to get rid of negative events or negative thoughts - you cannot。 Rather， your job is to improve your response to these events and thoughts。[Recommended Book: Happiness Unlimited]（30） Just one positive thought early in the day can produce a significantly different outcome by the end of the day。 This is in line with the butterfly effect where butterfly flapping can cause minute weather changes， which， over time， can have a significant impact on the weather far away。（31） Repeating affirmations is like feeding coding instructions to your subconscious mind。 Once the code is fed in， then the subconscious mind will run them automatically， and do anything to fructify the instructions。（32） Things are easier when you are in the mood to do them。 But if you are looking for a greater life， you have to commit yourself to the same effort even when you are not in the mood。 Commitment to your dreams， therefore， is the greatest virtue。[Recommended Book: Dream On]（33） Achievement of goals leads to the release of happy hormones in the body - one of which is dopamine。 If you break up a bigger goal into smaller ones， then more goals are achieved as a natural bi-product of the bigger goal， leading to more dopamine release， which is good for you。（34） One glass of alcohol usually costs more than a book。 Which one is more likely to change your life？ People usually invest in the wrong places。[Recommended Blogpost: Why should you read books like mad？]（35） Just because you cannot see the point behind a challenging time does not mean there isn't one。 The past cannot be changed， but our perception of the same can be。 This belief in a good reason behind everything allows us to have a positive perspective of the past， and therefore allows us to build a positive future。（36） Some of the best changes in life result from some of the most painful experiences。 Pain is good。（37） When you are praying for a situation to change， remember that you are in that situation so that you can change。 Everything is connected。 Everything has a reason。[Recommended Book: A Father's Diary]（38） Working 5 days a week to search for those 'free' 2 days is such a waste of life。 A greater life of purpose is definitely possible。[Recommended Book: From the Rat Race to Financial Freedom]（39） Chase your excitement without any conditions。 You don't need to justify what you are doing if you are excited about it。 You just have to do it。 If you follow your excitement， the universe will throw more exciting things at you。 Eventually， your excitement will turn into your profession。（40） Make money to assist you， not to complete you。（41） There is unlimited money available。 Limitation， thus， is a product of your mind。 。。。more
leoni jess
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A must read to get you started Great book to support my journey of self love， law of attraction and true happiness。 This was very easy to read
Sondos
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كان رفيق جميل و خفيف في المترو، كنت بحب ابتدي يومي الدراسي بكام شابتر منه وكان جميل جدا و معبر عن الشق الأول من عنوانه، ولكن مش هكدب فاضلي فيه شابترين و مش حاسة اني هكمله طالما مش بركب مواصلات الفترة دي، أفكاره جميلة و شامل مواضيع متعددة و كان مخليني ريلاكسد معظم اليوم بصراحة، من الكتب اللي هرجعلها تاني إن شاء الله في المستقبل و على الرغم من ذلك اتمنى الكاتب يسامحني إني مقدرتش اخلص آخر كام صفحة فيه :）））
Crystal
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Some of the ideas were helpful， but a lot of it was common knowledge。 It was a good， easy read。
Daisy
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A highlight reel of ways to live a happier more fulfilled life。 Feels a bit like a compilation of inspiring Instagram quotes but everyone can benefit from a bit of inspiration。 A great starting point for people trying to make a change for the better。
Nicole Forbes
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IMOI really enjoyed this book and will definitely be buying this as a gift。 It is in short little episodes with small topics。 Really easy to pick up and leave down。
Rosie Louise
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After several rounds of CBT and a lot of study about anxiety this book didn't teach me anything I didn't already know and it's a bit typical self help book in places。 I also found some of the examples to be vague， but it was nice to see some of the ideas that I have thought of myself in writing and I enjoyed the references to scientific studies and philosophers。 Wouldn't recommend to those who have gotten used to being anxious people， but can imagine it would be a great read for people who feel After several rounds of CBT and a lot of study about anxiety this book didn't teach me anything I didn't already know and it's a bit typical self help book in places。 I also found some of the examples to be vague， but it was nice to see some of the ideas that I have thought of myself in writing and I enjoyed the references to scientific studies and philosophers。 Wouldn't recommend to those who have gotten used to being anxious people， but can imagine it would be a great read for people who feel that they are losing control and are looking for purpose。 。。。more
Lorraine Snowberger
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This was so bad that I wished I hadn't read it。 So much trite and boring advice along the lines of "think positive" and "be happy。" Some examples lines from the book include "When we commit our energy to poverty， we manifest poverty。" and "Money flows to those who believe they deserve it and can attain it。" This was so bad that I wished I hadn't read it。 So much trite and boring advice along the lines of "think positive" and "be happy。" Some examples lines from the book include "When we commit our energy to poverty， we manifest poverty。" and "Money flows to those who believe they deserve it and can attain it。" 。。。more
Marrsya Fuad
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Loveee this book。。 My very first book that I actually took initiative to highlight and mark pages that will be useful for me in the future。 This will be my go to book whenever I need positivity。
Anne Beyer
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Tolles Buch zum Thema Persönlichkeitsentwicklung & Selbstfindung。
Rachel
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waffle sandwich with a light dusting of pseudoscience
Desi Ivanova
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Loved this book。 It resonated with me and everything I have gone through this past year。 This book was well written， easy to read， and I would recommend it to anyone on a spiritual growth journey。
Daisy Phillips
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I tend not to enjoy self-help and wellness books， and this one was no exception。 The equivalent of being dragged to a yoga class by your spiritual Instagram influencer friend， I found a few meaningful moments and did post a few quotes on my story （which is what I believe this book was designed for） however it says a lot without saying much at all and did warrant an eye roll or two as I progressed through its pages。 Easy to read and a bit shallow but nice to pass the time （a bit like dating one o I tend not to enjoy self-help and wellness books， and this one was no exception。 The equivalent of being dragged to a yoga class by your spiritual Instagram influencer friend， I found a few meaningful moments and did post a few quotes on my story （which is what I believe this book was designed for） however it says a lot without saying much at all and did warrant an eye roll or two as I progressed through its pages。 Easy to read and a bit shallow but nice to pass the time （a bit like dating one of those aforementioned Instagram influencers） 3/5 stars 。。。more
Brooke Ellis
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Loved this book！ Such an enjoyable， relatable and easy read。 Full of important messages about adopting a more positive mindset， practising self-love and expressing gratitude。 I am also trying to learn more about the law of attraction and manifestation， so I found this book super useful and easy to understand！I will definitely be referring back to this book in the future☺️
Neema
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Recommend the book for people who want to pursue good life
Gianna
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This book is giving me a new insight to be a better person and how to be grateful for my life。 💜 I was at my lowest point when I started reading， and this book helped through the most challenging part of my life。
Dionella
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