It Takes More than Love: A Christian Guide to Navigating the Complexities of Cross-Cultural Adoption

It Takes More than Love: A Christian Guide to Navigating the Complexities of Cross-Cultural Adoption

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  • Create Date:2022-04-13 06:52:02
  • Update Date:2025-09-06
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  • Author:Brittany Salmon
  • ISBN:0802424155
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Summary

Embrace the beauty and challenges of transracial adoption。

Being an adoptive parent is hard enough。 But when your family is multiracial, things get even trickier。 Parenting transracially doesn’t come naturally, nor does it just happen with time。 Love is essential—yet by itself, love isn’t enough。 Cross-cultural parenting also takes intentionality, listening, learning, growing, repenting, changing 。 。 。 then starting all over and doing it again。 It’s hard work! And yet, when an adoptive family honors the ethnic heritages of their children, the whole family—as well as the watching world—gets to see the beauty of a gloriously creative God。

In It Takes More Than Love, Brittany Salmon shares her own family’s story of transracial adoption and offers a biblically-based guide for others following the same path。 Brittany recognizes that we live in divided times and there are extra challenges whenever race is part of the conversation。 But with wise insight and hard-won experience, she provides guidance about topics such as:


Maintaining a Gospel perspective throughout the journey
Celebrating your child’s history and heritage
Confronting racism
Responding to comments about your family
Avoiding pitfalls in adoption
Helping your kids feel represented in your home and community
No one is promising transracial adoption will be easy—least of all Brittany! Yet the extra effort is balanced by a beauty that images our eternal destiny。 Until the day God makes all things new, the welcoming an inclusive transracial family can help fulfill Jesus’s words, “on earth as it is in heaven。”

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Reviews

Rebekah Powell

I am so grateful for this book。 My part of the adoption triad is an adoptive mother。 I’ve known I wanted to adopt for most of my life, but I never had any idea of the additional challenges that would bring to parenting。 For the past two years I’ve been worrying about and striving so hard to prevent further traumatizing my children。 Brittany’s practical advice comes from her personal experience, and the wisdom she has from devoting herself to being a lifelong learner。 I really appreciate the voic I am so grateful for this book。 My part of the adoption triad is an adoptive mother。 I’ve known I wanted to adopt for most of my life, but I never had any idea of the additional challenges that would bring to parenting。 For the past two years I’ve been worrying about and striving so hard to prevent further traumatizing my children。 Brittany’s practical advice comes from her personal experience, and the wisdom she has from devoting herself to being a lifelong learner。 I really appreciate the voices of adoptees in the books。 I’ve been reading some adoptee blogs and so many stories and feelings they share are heart-wrenching。 I finally feel like I can take what I’ve learned from this book and stop WORRYING about messing up and DO something to promote positive racial identity in my sons and give each of my children space to feel/say/question whatever they need。 I plan on reading this one multiple times! I hope others in my circle - family, friends, church, community - will read this book as well so my kids can grow up being affirmed, celebrated, and supported。 。。。more

Carrie Beth

This book is a voice we need in the area of cross-cultural adoption/fostering。 It tackles the complexities of adoption with both grace and honesty。 The author does not give the illusion that she and her family are perfect: she is quick to point out mistakes made along the way in her own journey of cross-cultural adoption。 I love the snippets from an actual adoptee sprinkled throughout the book。 I think this is a great read for everyone—not just those who have adopted or are considering adopting。 This book is a voice we need in the area of cross-cultural adoption/fostering。 It tackles the complexities of adoption with both grace and honesty。 The author does not give the illusion that she and her family are perfect: she is quick to point out mistakes made along the way in her own journey of cross-cultural adoption。 I love the snippets from an actual adoptee sprinkled throughout the book。 I think this is a great read for everyone—not just those who have adopted or are considering adopting。 Great read you won’t regret! 。。。more

LeAllison

I literally read the book in one day…。it’s 100% a must read for anyone in or around the adoption/foster world!