How to Talk So Kids Will Listen Listen So Kids Will Talk
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- Author：Adele Faber
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Summary
You can stop fighting with your children！
Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be more effective with your children - and more supportive of yourself。 Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world， the down-to-earth， respectful approach of Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding。 Now， in this thirtieth-anniversary edition， these award-winning experts share their latest insights and suggestions based on feedback they've received over the years。
Their methods of communication - illustrated with delightful cartoons showing the skills in action - offer innovative ways to solve common problems。 You'll learn how:
★ Cope with your child's negative feelings - frustration， disappointment， anger， etc。
★ Express your anger without being hurtful
★ Engage your child's willing cooperation
★ Set firm limits and still maintain goodwill
★ Use alternatives to punishment
★ Resolve family conflicts peacefully
Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be more effective with your children - and more supportive of yourself。 Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world， the down-to-earth， respectful approach of Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding。 Now， in this thirtieth-anniversary edition， these award-winning experts share their latest insights and suggestions based on feedback they've received over the years。
Their methods of communication - illustrated with delightful cartoons showing the skills in action - offer innovative ways to solve common problems。 You'll learn how:
★ Cope with your child's negative feelings - frustration， disappointment， anger， etc。
★ Express your anger without being hurtful
★ Engage your child's willing cooperation
★ Set firm limits and still maintain goodwill
★ Use alternatives to punishment
★ Resolve family conflicts peacefully
Reviews
Abby Sagstetter
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This style of parenting really resonates with me。 The advice given is so well documented with examples and lots of quick tips as well。 The practice of treating our children with dignity and respect feels so radical compared to other forms of parenting， but makes total sense。
Anna Tsurkan
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Эта книга была и продолжает оставаться моей настольной книгой уже долгие годы。 С ней меня познакомили друзья， когда моей дочери ещё не было и двух лет。 Они организовали семинары для молодых родителей， где мы читали ее по главам и делились идеями о прочитанном。 Позже， я перечитывала ее сама。 Что мне нравится， что она не только помогает наладить коммуникацию с ребёнком， но и проработать собственные проблемы。 Хотя применять описанные навыки не так и просто。 Нужно делать все с большой осознанностью， Эта книга была и продолжает оставаться моей настольной книгой уже долгие годы。 С ней меня познакомили друзья， когда моей дочери ещё не было и двух лет。 Они организовали семинары для молодых родителей， где мы читали ее по главам и делились идеями о прочитанном。 Позже， я перечитывала ее сама。 Что мне нравится， что она не только помогает наладить коммуникацию с ребёнком， но и проработать собственные проблемы。 Хотя применять описанные навыки не так и просто。 Нужно делать все с большой осознанностью， иначе так и тянет скатиться к тому， что впитано с молоком матери и было принято в обществе， когда мы сами были детьми。 В общем， ее недостаточно просто прочитать， к ней нужно возвращаться снова и снова。 Но оно того стоит！ 。。。more
Eglė
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Naudinga knyga， bet labiau pritaikyta ne Lietuvos skaitytojams
Amanda Supak
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I read how to talk so little kids would listen first， and this one is very similar in technique。 It is updated for specific advice for kids which I found interesting
Rūta Daukšienė
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Pastaruoju metu superinės knygos patenka į mano rankas！ Girdėjau atgarsių， kad knygos formatas nelabai tinkamas ir malonus skaitymui， kartais galbūt norėjosi skaityti vientisą tekstą ir tiek。 Tačiau perskaičius knygą， galėčiau sakyti， net labai geras formatas， nes ne tik info， bet ir užduotys。 Be praktikos mes tikrai ne išmoksime nieko ir nelabai atsiras pokytis。 Ši knyga padeda mokytis bendrauti ne tik su vaikais， tačiau su visais aplinkiniais。 Paprastos， atrodytų elementarios tiesos， tačiau to Pastaruoju metu superinės knygos patenka į mano rankas！ Girdėjau atgarsių， kad knygos formatas nelabai tinkamas ir malonus skaitymui， kartais galbūt norėjosi skaityti vientisą tekstą ir tiek。 Tačiau perskaičius knygą， galėčiau sakyti， net labai geras formatas， nes ne tik info， bet ir užduotys。 Be praktikos mes tikrai ne išmoksime nieko ir nelabai atsiras pokytis。 Ši knyga padeda mokytis bendrauti ne tik su vaikais， tačiau su visais aplinkiniais。 Paprastos， atrodytų elementarios tiesos， tačiau toli gražu mes jų nežinom， o jeigu ir žinom， tai nemokam taikyti。。。 Džiaugiuosi， kad ne pasidaviau aplinkinių nuomonei， jog yra analogiškų knygų šia tema， kurios smagiau skaitosi。 Tai knyga， kurią vertėtų atsiversti kartas nuo karto。 Knyga atrodytų， skirta auginantiems vyresnio amžiaus vaikus。 Tačiau auginu 2，5 metų vaiką ir manau pats laikas man pradėti mokytis bendrauti su vaiku， nes taip， bendrauti reikia mokytis。 。。。more
Sheila
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WOW！ This is one life-changing book！I've been searching for a book about how to communicate， and I'd never thought I'd found it in this parenting book！ This book helps me communicate more efficiently with my boyfriend， so I say this based on experience : this book is not just for children， it's universal。 Life is a continual process of adjustments and readjustment。 I love how it gives emphasis on compassion as the core of every lesson to learn from this book。 The attitude behind your words i WOW！ This is one life-changing book！I've been searching for a book about how to communicate， and I'd never thought I'd found it in this parenting book！ This book helps me communicate more efficiently with my boyfriend， so I say this based on experience : this book is not just for children， it's universal。 Life is a continual process of adjustments and readjustment。 I love how it gives emphasis on compassion as the core of every lesson to learn from this book。 The attitude behind your words is as important as the words themselves。 。。。more
Anna
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When I went into this book， it was for a reason。I have a very stubborn， cunning and curious toddler （testing the limits， very active）， I never wanted to to punish or dismissing him， I am actually very excited for his cunning achievements in some way， but misdirection doesn't work any more and I need to establish the firm limits without killing his curiosity。 I would love to get more tips/strategies。 This book is full of scenarios and teaching you empathy to the kid。 Well， I do not have a problem When I went into this book， it was for a reason。I have a very stubborn， cunning and curious toddler （testing the limits， very active）， I never wanted to to punish or dismissing him， I am actually very excited for his cunning achievements in some way， but misdirection doesn't work any more and I need to establish the firm limits without killing his curiosity。 I would love to get more tips/strategies。 This book is full of scenarios and teaching you empathy to the kid。 Well， I do not have a problem with understanding "How would it make me feel， if I were him"。。So， if you are thinking of having kids and learning more- good book and great general read， if you have more exact ongoing stuff happening in your hands -> this wouldn't do anything for you。 。。。more
Jessica
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I wish I would have read this book when my son was younger （now 10）， and I think this should be required education for anyone that works with children for a living。
Angela Lam
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An extremely clear and practical book， filled with sound examples， cartoons， tips and stories to help parents consider different scenarios and how to personalize the advice。 This is the first parenting book I've read （and my girl is already coming to 17！） I only picked up the book because it was recommended by a client and I read every book that goes into ReadinGraphics' library。 But I enjoyed every page of it， and will definitely recommend it to any parent or teacher。 I feel that the tips aren' An extremely clear and practical book， filled with sound examples， cartoons， tips and stories to help parents consider different scenarios and how to personalize the advice。 This is the first parenting book I've read （and my girl is already coming to 17！） I only picked up the book because it was recommended by a client and I read every book that goes into ReadinGraphics' library。 But I enjoyed every page of it， and will definitely recommend it to any parent or teacher。 I feel that the tips aren't just applicable to kids--they can work for people of all ages （except newborns lol）。 Basically， there are 6 sets of skills to: • Help children to deal with their feelings• Gain cooperation without negative feelings• Use alternatives to punishment （which are more effective in influencing behaviors）• Encourage autonomy （and nurture children who are independent， responsible and competent）• Use descriptive praise to shape positive self-image • Free children from playing roles based on the "labels" they're givenTruly a great， timeless book :）https://readingraphics。com/book-summa。。。 。。。more
Divya
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Best ever book about communication。 A must read。 And not just for parents。
Audrey De
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I really liked this but felt like some of the scenarios in the groups were far too constructed to be real。 I struggle thinking that children （or adults） speak like that。 The information itself was on point。
Laura
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Finalmente un libro che non ti fa sentire un genitore di cacca ma che dà davvero consigli utili e pratici per affrontare le questioni quotidiane con i figli。 L’ho preso in biblioteca ma ho deciso di acquistarne una copia perché credo sia proprio utile averne uno sul comodino e sfogliarlo ogni tanto。 Certo le cose poi non è che diventino magicamente rose e fiori ma degli spunti ci sono。 Non so dire se poi funzioni， io ci sto un po’ provando ma non è semplice cambiare le proprie abitudini，fermarsi Finalmente un libro che non ti fa sentire un genitore di cacca ma che dà davvero consigli utili e pratici per affrontare le questioni quotidiane con i figli。 L’ho preso in biblioteca ma ho deciso di acquistarne una copia perché credo sia proprio utile averne uno sul comodino e sfogliarlo ogni tanto。 Certo le cose poi non è che diventino magicamente rose e fiori ma degli spunti ci sono。 Non so dire se poi funzioni， io ci sto un po’ provando ma non è semplice cambiare le proprie abitudini，fermarsi a riflettere su come agire。Lo consiglio davvero a tutti i genitori。 。。。more
Ngoc Trang
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Thank the author。 This book reminds me about a pause before talking and interacting with my child。 I have applied some techniques such as calling his emotion， describing what he did instead of praising with some words as “wonderful” or “great”， sharing my emotion and expectation。 They are so helpful that improve our caring and sharing in order to make life happier。 :）
Miranda Resnikoff
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I took this out from the library and think I need to buy a copy。 Not easy to adjust to， but I think the work of assimilating the guidance given will make a difference for me。 I appreciated how up-beat and patient the writing felt。
Monica Brown
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Mom to a one year old。 Got this book from the library and found it very informative; the book offers lots of techniques to be able to communicate with your children。 Does it have the answer to all your questions？ No， but it gives you really good techniques that you could use to help your children become more confident， and self-reliant:
Gregg
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Some interesting ideas with an incredible amount of filler。
Nicole Lefevre
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I would give 10 stars if I could
Jed
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Some very good ideas and principles are given in this book。 I wish I read it when my kids were smaller。
Dario Salvi
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very useful book！ it gives some practical hints about how to understand and communicate with your children。 A bit too long and redundant though。
Michelle Dunford
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AMAZING。 I want to read this every year， so I never forget it's wisdom。 AMAZING。 I want to read this every year， so I never forget it's wisdom。 。。。more
Aseel Shabuni
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السبيل إلى إصغاء طفلك لك هو أن تتعلم أنت كيف تصغي بكل جوارحك إلى حديثه وما تخبرك به مشاعره。بهذا الكتاب تتعلم كيف تستمع إلى هموم طفلك ويعرف أنك تفهمه، وكيف تتعامل مع عواطفه وتعلمه التعامل مع عواطفه ومشاعره وأن يثق بنفسه。 والأهم من ذلك، طرق التحدث مع الطفل وبدائل اعطاء الأوامر مما يجعل فرصة طاعتك أكبر。 رأيي الشخصي: قرأت عدة كتب في مجال التربية ولكن هذا الكتاب مختلف ويستحق أعلى تقييم بالنسبة لي بسبب أنه واقعي جداً ولا يسرد لك المعلومات شفهياً فحسب، فالتطبيقات والأمثلة المذكورة تحثك على التجربة والت السبيل إلى إصغاء طفلك لك هو أن تتعلم أنت كيف تصغي بكل جوارحك إلى حديثه وما تخبرك به مشاعره。بهذا الكتاب تتعلم كيف تستمع إلى هموم طفلك ويعرف أنك تفهمه، وكيف تتعامل مع عواطفه وتعلمه التعامل مع عواطفه ومشاعره وأن يثق بنفسه。 والأهم من ذلك، طرق التحدث مع الطفل وبدائل اعطاء الأوامر مما يجعل فرصة طاعتك أكبر。 رأيي الشخصي: قرأت عدة كتب في مجال التربية ولكن هذا الكتاب مختلف ويستحق أعلى تقييم بالنسبة لي بسبب أنه واقعي جداً ولا يسرد لك المعلومات شفهياً فحسب، فالتطبيقات والأمثلة المذكورة تحثك على التجربة والتنفيذ العملي للمعلومات والأفكار。 وكما يعمل ويركز على تطويرك كمربي أولاً مما ينجح تطوير العلاقة بأطفالك وتوطيدها لأفضل النتائج。 ولا بأس من الاخفاق فالحياة تجارب وأنت انسان له مشاعره وظروفه وطاقته، والتعامل مع الاطفال اشد تعقيداً مما يبدو ولكنه ليس مستحيلاً، فلا تكف عن المحاولة ^^。 。。。more
Emma Bedda
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Good examples but nothing new from what I had already Googled。 Found the writing style a little tedious， just my opinion though would probably be helpful for new parents looking for positive discipline ideas。
Jamon
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the bible of parenting books and communication in general。。。a gem。。written in 80s so a little out of date in some aspects but the principles stand the test of time
Giulia Zanfi
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Finalmente un "manuale per genitori" decente！Non sono una appassionata di libri sull educazione， ma ogni tsnto mi fa piacere leggerli per mettermi in discussione come mamma e come persona in generale。 Questo l ho trovato semplice ma efficace allo stesso tempo。 Sto imparando tante cose: come rapportarmi con mia figlia ma anche con gli adulti che， altro non sono， che il risultato dell educazione dei propri genitori。 Finalmente un "manuale per genitori" decente！Non sono una appassionata di libri sull educazione， ma ogni tsnto mi fa piacere leggerli per mettermi in discussione come mamma e come persona in generale。 Questo l ho trovato semplice ma efficace allo stesso tempo。 Sto imparando tante cose: come rapportarmi con mia figlia ma anche con gli adulti che， altro non sono， che il risultato dell educazione dei propri genitori。 。。。more
William Buchanan
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Once you read this， it will make you uncomfortable to witness how most people talk to their kids and peers。 All adults should read this。
Sciencestudent
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بالرغم من ان الكتاب اصدر منذ ١٩٨٠ الا انه ثري جدا باالمعلومات المثريه حول كيفيه العامل مع مشاعر الاطفال كلٌ حسب مرحلته العمريه اكاد لا استغرب انه هذا الكتاب ما زال مرجعا قويا لكل مربي حتى ف عصرنا هذا ٢٠٢١
Michael DeWhatley
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There are parts of this book that feel a little dated， but it's helpful to think about the power of acknowledging feelings and enabling make believe as a way of solving problems。 Helpful！ There are parts of this book that feel a little dated， but it's helpful to think about the power of acknowledging feelings and enabling make believe as a way of solving problems。 Helpful！ 。。。more
Samantha
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A LOT of good take aways。
Ashley G。
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Very useful practical information。 I have already used several of the methods in this book。 Won't solve everything （obviously） but it certainly gives the reader some options of things to try in different scenarios。 Very accessible。 Will read again and again。 Very useful practical information。 I have already used several of the methods in this book。 Won't solve everything （obviously） but it certainly gives the reader some options of things to try in different scenarios。 Very accessible。 Will read again and again。 。。。more
Greg
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