Kim Jiyoung. Urodzona w 1982
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- Author：Cho Nam-Joo
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Summary
Kim Jiyoung urodziła się jako dziewczynka， choć rodzice chcieli chłopca。
Kim Jiyoung jest córką， więc jest gorsza od swojego brata。
Kim Jiyoung jest wzorową studentką， ale nie może odbyć stażu。
Kim Jiyoung ma najlepsze wyniki w pracy， jednak nie dostaje awansu。
Kim Jiyoung jest matką， więc musi porzucić karierę zawodową。
Kim Jiyoung jest kobietą。
Moja historia jest zwyczajna。 Mieszkam w Korei Południowej。 Jestem żoną， matką。 Pracuję w dużej korporacji pełnej szpiegowskich kamer w damskich toaletach。 Mężczyznom to nie przeszkadza， więc nikt się tym nie przejmuje。 Jako pełnoetatowa mama muszę zrezygnować z pracy i zająć się domem， bo w oczach mężczyzn to obowiązek kobiety。 Tak też zrobię。 Rzeczywistość jednak okazuje się dla mnie trudniejsza i wpadam w pułapkę。
Czy mam taki sam problem jak Ty？
Powieść， która wywołała międzynarodową dyskusję o prawach kobiet na całym świecie。
Ponad milion sprzedanych egzemplarzy w samej Korei Południowej。
Kim Jiyoung jest córką， więc jest gorsza od swojego brata。
Kim Jiyoung jest wzorową studentką， ale nie może odbyć stażu。
Kim Jiyoung ma najlepsze wyniki w pracy， jednak nie dostaje awansu。
Kim Jiyoung jest matką， więc musi porzucić karierę zawodową。
Kim Jiyoung jest kobietą。
Moja historia jest zwyczajna。 Mieszkam w Korei Południowej。 Jestem żoną， matką。 Pracuję w dużej korporacji pełnej szpiegowskich kamer w damskich toaletach。 Mężczyznom to nie przeszkadza， więc nikt się tym nie przejmuje。 Jako pełnoetatowa mama muszę zrezygnować z pracy i zająć się domem， bo w oczach mężczyzn to obowiązek kobiety。 Tak też zrobię。 Rzeczywistość jednak okazuje się dla mnie trudniejsza i wpadam w pułapkę。
Czy mam taki sam problem jak Ty？
Powieść， która wywołała międzynarodową dyskusję o prawach kobiet na całym świecie。
Ponad milion sprzedanych egzemplarzy w samej Korei Południowej。
Reviews
leticia
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o adm do quebrando o tabu co-escreveu esse livro
Laura
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This will leave you a bit pissed off - especially as a female reader。 Very informative read。 Although it is a fictionalised novella tracing a woman from childhood to early 30s it is almost like a case study as it is plentiful in references and footnotes。 These references further emphasise the stark disparity between women and men's rights and their role in society in Korea。 It is astounding what is currently going on in Korea， as the novella goes up to 2016。 The author is understandably angered This will leave you a bit pissed off - especially as a female reader。 Very informative read。 Although it is a fictionalised novella tracing a woman from childhood to early 30s it is almost like a case study as it is plentiful in references and footnotes。 These references further emphasise the stark disparity between women and men's rights and their role in society in Korea。 It is astounding what is currently going on in Korea， as the novella goes up to 2016。 The author is understandably angered by the blatant sexism in her society。 The novel reads a bit like a satire。 Her writing is quite wry in her observations。 Would highly recommend - a quick read， memorable and impactful。First time reading something by a Korean writer and I'm intrigued to read more。 。。。more
Theresa
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This book makes me so angry and it really took off with the second half for me！ Even made me still think about stuff I never even thought about or thought 'thats just how things are' This book makes me so angry and it really took off with the second half for me！ Even made me still think about stuff I never even thought about or thought 'thats just how things are' 。。。more
Saranya
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I've always imagined Korea to be a fairy-tale world from all the web series。 But this book just opened a new side of Korea for me where women are treated so unequally。 I could connect with their culture and thought process （Indian） in so many instances and I am sure many Asian women could connect to this book。 This book is the heart of feminism- gender biased child birth， harassment， women shaming， unequal wages， bias in childcare， and much much more。 A must read to all fellow women out there！ I've always imagined Korea to be a fairy-tale world from all the web series。 But this book just opened a new side of Korea for me where women are treated so unequally。 I could connect with their culture and thought process （Indian） in so many instances and I am sure many Asian women could connect to this book。 This book is the heart of feminism- gender biased child birth， harassment， women shaming， unequal wages， bias in childcare， and much much more。 A must read to all fellow women out there！ 。。。more
Guada
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qué IRA que me agarré leyendo el final （y todo el libro en realidad） pero a pesar de la bronca lo disfruté mucho y lo leería de nuevo
Lucy Jayne
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Reading this book， I didn’t really enjoy it。 Don’t get me wrong， I absolutely adored （or despised， take your pick） the subject matter and hearing all the blatant and more subtle sexism that plagued the novel honestly got my inner rage-monster riling， but the manner in which it was written was honestly off-putting。 “Damn， this is just like reading a Wikipedia synopsis， isn’t it？” I thought at the end of every chapter， and while we got the inner workings of what Jiyoung was thinking， it all seemed Reading this book， I didn’t really enjoy it。 Don’t get me wrong， I absolutely adored （or despised， take your pick） the subject matter and hearing all the blatant and more subtle sexism that plagued the novel honestly got my inner rage-monster riling， but the manner in which it was written was honestly off-putting。 “Damn， this is just like reading a Wikipedia synopsis， isn’t it？” I thought at the end of every chapter， and while we got the inner workings of what Jiyoung was thinking， it all seemed very matter-of-fact， very clinical and factual。 Without the last chapter， my review would have been a lot lower。But then， lo and behold， （view spoiler）[ the account before the last chapter WAS clinical， in a literal sense。 What I initially thought might have been just a sub-par translation or me just not vibing with the author’s writing style was intentional。 This WAS a clinical account of Jiyoung’s life by her psychiatrist。 And boy did it make me mad。 After seeing this woman for 45 minutes twice a week， having her entire life dictated to him in heart-wrenching detail， understanding her experiences with sexism from her perspective and relating this to the life of his own wife and employee who had to quit her job to have a child， what does he take from it？ “Even the best female employees can cause many problems if they don’t have the childcare issue taken care of。 I’ll have to make sure her replacement is unmarried。”BRUH。 He really reminds me of one of those Skyrim bandits who literally get shot in the face by an arrow and are like “huh， must have been the wind。” （hide spoiler）]So now that I’ve finished the book， did I enjoy it overall？ Yes。 Did I enjoy the experience of reading it？ Eh， not entirely。 While the last chapter really helps my understanding of the writing style， it was still a bit of a chore to get through， which is saying something considering the book is only 162 pages。 But I do think about it fondly （or by tearing my hair out in male-induced frustration， take your pick） and I would recommend it。 3。5 stars 。。。more
Hannah Borison
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This book is brutal。 It's a gut-wrenching examination of sexism， patriarchy， and the struggle between motherhood and a career in Korea （and quite frankly， the world）。 It's a really quick read， and totally worth it， if only for the perfectly painful twist at the end。 This book is brutal。 It's a gut-wrenching examination of sexism， patriarchy， and the struggle between motherhood and a career in Korea （and quite frankly， the world）。 It's a really quick read， and totally worth it， if only for the perfectly painful twist at the end。 。。。more
Pecinta Pena
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📘 Kim Ji-Yeong， lahir tahun 1982 | Cho Nam Joo| PT。 Gramedia Pustaka Utama， 2019 |190 hal。Apa yang membuat sebuah buku begitu menggemparkan？ Lewat buku ini， aku mengetahui jawabannya， yaitu kejujuran & keberanian。✏️ Novel ini menggemparkan Korea Selatan sejak pertama kali dirilis & dipublish。 Ceritanya mengangkat kisah kaum wanita yang didiskriminasi di Korsel pada masa itu。 Kim Ji-Yeong， tokoh utama novel ini seolah menjadi figure yang berhasil mewakili keadaan mayoritas kaum wanita di seluruh 📘 Kim Ji-Yeong， lahir tahun 1982 | Cho Nam Joo| PT。 Gramedia Pustaka Utama， 2019 |190 hal。Apa yang membuat sebuah buku begitu menggemparkan？ Lewat buku ini， aku mengetahui jawabannya， yaitu kejujuran & keberanian。✏️ Novel ini menggemparkan Korea Selatan sejak pertama kali dirilis & dipublish。 Ceritanya mengangkat kisah kaum wanita yang didiskriminasi di Korsel pada masa itu。 Kim Ji-Yeong， tokoh utama novel ini seolah menjadi figure yang berhasil mewakili keadaan mayoritas kaum wanita di seluruh dunia。✏️ Saat lahir， anak perempuan harus patuh pada orang tua bagaimanapun mereka diperlakukan。 Ketika besar， mereka harus rela dikorbankan agar saudara-saudara laki-laki mereka bisa sekolah。 Jika mereka dilecehkan， mereka tetap dianggap salah karena tidak bisa menjaga diri。 ✏️ Belum lagi saat menikah， menjadi aturan tak tertulis bagi perempuan untuk melepaskan segala impiannya demi keluarga baru mereka。 Jika tak kunjung mengandung， mereka disalahkan karena diduga tidak sehat。 Setelah punya anak， mereka harus menghadapi segala problematikanya sendirian。 Hanya sedikit suami & mertua yang mau peduli。✏️ Itulah yang terjadi pada Kim Ji-Yeong。 awalnya， ia lahir sebagai anak yang sangat ceria。 Namun， semuanya berubah saat ia mulai tumbuh。 Masa kecilnya dilalui dengan perasaan tak diinginkan。 Masa remajanya berlalu dengan perasaan tak dihargai， dan masa dewasa dijejakinya dengan perasaan penuh beban。 Semuanya berhasil mencabut suaranya secara total。✏️ Saat membaca novel ini， aku banyak menggerutu， "benar sekali， kenapa aturan tak tertulis itu selalu menyudutkan perempuan？， Siapa pula yang pertama kali membuatnya？"。 Tapi， aku cukup yakin bahwa novel ini tidak dibuat untuk mengajak perempuan menangis， atau merasa paling menderita。 Novel ini ingin mengajak pembaca lebih jujur， berani， menghargai， dan bertanggung jawab。 ✏️ fyi， novel ini menuai banyak sekali kontroversi di Korsel。 Kabarnya， jenie anggota blackpink sempat dicibir karena kepergok membaca novel ini， sementara Yumi dibully karena menerima tawaran sebagai tokoh Kim Ji-Yeong dalam drama。 Ah， kenapa mereka sampai seheboh itu？？✏️ Sejujurnya， ada beberapa ganjalan & pertanyaanku tentang buku ini。 Diksi yang dipilih tidak benar-benar membuatku nyaman membacanya。 Tapi setidaknya， aku bisa menemukan jawaban kenapa novel ini bisa sangat menggemparkan。✏️ Satu lagi， melalui novel ini， penulis berharap agar setiap anak perempuan di masa depan memiliki kehidupan lebih baik dari para ibunya。 Kalian yang suka isu gender atau penggemar K-drama， Monggo coba baca buku ini🤗 。。。more
Kyelee Fitts
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“Lacerating” is a good way to describe this book。 Or heartbreaking。 Seeing Jiyoung’s common life through the clinical lens of her doctor — seeing the everyday choices， encounters， the casual misogyny that adds up in the course of a life — makes me want to scream and cry。 Ackkk
Ivonne Monroy
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Todas hemos sido， en algún momento Kim Ji-young。Este libro nos cuenta a través de la vida de este personaje la desigualdad sexista que siempre ha estado latente desde cosas muy pequeñas son normalizadas hasta casos graves de acoso。 A través de los ojos de la protagonista vamos cuestionando cada una de las acciones que va viviendo， por que todas hemos pasado en algún momento。 Y es por eso que。。。 Todas somos Kim Ji-young
Cassie Quach
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Hmmm。。。 not sure how to feel about this book。 The main part of the premise that caught me was the fact that our main character， Jiyoung， has a mental illness that causes her to take on the identity of other females。 I thought that was intriguing and that it would be interspersed with commentary on the sexism and broken views and systems in South Korea。 Instead， it was a weird run-on background of the characters life with far too many family member introductions and details that I didn't feel tru Hmmm。。。 not sure how to feel about this book。 The main part of the premise that caught me was the fact that our main character， Jiyoung， has a mental illness that causes her to take on the identity of other females。 I thought that was intriguing and that it would be interspersed with commentary on the sexism and broken views and systems in South Korea。 Instead， it was a weird run-on background of the characters life with far too many family member introductions and details that I didn't feel truly served the story or the point being made on sexism。 The interesting premise was extremely skimmed and glossed over in the very beginning in a sort of matter of fact manner and then not mentioned basically at all in the majority of the book as we were too busy getting info-dumped on her family tree a couple generations back。 And then the book just ends。 No resolution， no explanation， no deeper discussion or even real conflict。 It read like a memoir， but one I would have had very little interest in reading if I had known it would not really explain the most interesting part of her story。 There are major glaring problems pointed out about misogyny and the inherent sexism that exists in the Korean culture as well as in the world。 However， they are all problems that， as an Asian American， I am fully aware of。 I didn't get much from reading this book。 Very much a shame。 。。。more
Jess Porter
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Definitely a lot of feelings towards this book。 My only complaint （and the reason for the three stars） was the last chapter。 It didn’t really make any sense to me， and the ending fell flat。。。。but otherwise this was good。
Lucía Scándalo
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Tan sencillo y claro a la vez。 Se siente muy cercano。 Lo disfruté muchísimo。
Monia
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It was a good story that reminds me of a report or an article from a magazine than a work of fiction。 It was sad， and in few moments， my blood boils in the mistreatment of women， but I couldn't stop reading。 I am so glad that I read this book。 It was a good story that reminds me of a report or an article from a magazine than a work of fiction。 It was sad， and in few moments， my blood boils in the mistreatment of women， but I couldn't stop reading。 I am so glad that I read this book。 。。。more
Kushal Hamal
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Not as good as expected being a biography there must be some noticeable moment that inspires others I hardly found that element in here！
Charlene Tsai
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There were some good quotes here and there， and it was a good book， but I don’t think it lives up to its hype。 This might have to do with the fact that I’m already used to the patriarchal society/culture in many Asian countries though。 Overall， good read that broadens your perspective without being too boring or dense。
Lexie Pickett
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The story was short， surprising， and really well written。 I loved the journey but the ending felt like it was missing something。
Nath
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Upon a recommandation， I bought the book and started reading。。。 couldn't stop and read it in a day！ You cannot do anything but empathize with the main character: you ache for/with her， root for her & cheer her on。 I loved it and urge you to dive into that book Upon a recommandation， I bought the book and started reading。。。 couldn't stop and read it in a day！ You cannot do anything but empathize with the main character: you ache for/with her， root for her & cheer her on。 I loved it and urge you to dive into that book 。。。more
Diyanah Fauzi
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Honestly I wanted to love this book， the summary looked great。 It talks about women’s struggle， gender injustice and many more。 I love the main theme of the story， but the book lacks of emotions。 The characters felt a bit distant from me as a reader。 The book somewhat intends to discuss a heavy topic yet I feel distant with the characters。 So， I gave it a 3 😅
jiyoon
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the best word to describe my experience reading KIM JIYOUNG， BORN 1982 is probably “infuriating。” being reminded of all the little and big ways misogyny and the patriarchy hurt and limit and flat out trap women was nothing short of infuriating， and seeing that this south korean book is an international bestseller （it’s been sold in 19 countries）， it’s clearly rung true for far too many。 sometimes it feels as though the older i get， the harder it is to bear these kinds of stories， whether they de the best word to describe my experience reading KIM JIYOUNG， BORN 1982 is probably “infuriating。” being reminded of all the little and big ways misogyny and the patriarchy hurt and limit and flat out trap women was nothing short of infuriating， and seeing that this south korean book is an international bestseller （it’s been sold in 19 countries）， it’s clearly rung true for far too many。 sometimes it feels as though the older i get， the harder it is to bear these kinds of stories， whether they deal with misogyny or homophobia or racism。 i’m almost surprised by how quickly i can be filled with absolute hatred for both active perpetrators of discrimination/violence and those who fail to properly protect victims， from negligent schoolteachers to fathers who victim-blame their daughters。 but i’m so grateful that these books are being written and that writers like cho nam-joo exist — although it can feel like things will always be this awful， these creators are helping to change the world by forcing people to look at these issues and genuinely see those who are affected by them。 i highly recommend this for anyone who wants a reflective read about misogyny or is interested in learning more about south korea’s particular brand of patriarchy。 anyways all men are garbage except for kim namjoon because he promoted this book when it was receiving the height of its criticism/literal death threats from thousands of angry incel korean men + the rest of bts also get a pass because they’re pretty and unproblematic 。。。more
peppersocks
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Reflections and lessons learned:“It’s not your fault - there are far more crazy men out there in the world”。。。but also great guys out there。。。 despite what is experienced everyday in terms of social constructs and hierarchy。。。 The imagery on the cover really sums the unfortunate story up - a time （not just specific to Korea） where a woman is seen but very little more than the outline。 Quite a detached narration on the audio version but I think that was needed to reflect how some have to get thro Reflections and lessons learned:“It’s not your fault - there are far more crazy men out there in the world”。。。but also great guys out there。。。 despite what is experienced everyday in terms of social constructs and hierarchy。。。 The imagery on the cover really sums the unfortunate story up - a time （not just specific to Korea） where a woman is seen but very little more than the outline。 Quite a detached narration on the audio version but I think that was needed to reflect how some have to get through whilst knowing the inequality 。。。more
Mariana Barletta
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It is appalling how women can never truly live for themselves。 The sort of detached writing made so much sense at the end。 I was truly shocked by how good and accurate this was。 Brilliant。
Heather
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This was really interesting， to see South Korean society in this way。 There’s many similarities to American society， women and motherhood， but there are big differences as well。 The style in which this is written is a little awkward， but on the whole it was thought-provoking。
Dan Forsyth
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I didn't know what to make of the first chapters of this book。 After that it was just sad and infuriating。 Good read though。 I didn't know what to make of the first chapters of this book。 After that it was just sad and infuriating。 Good read though。 。。。more
Eddie
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An interesting short novel about the pervasiveness of sexism in Korean society told through the lens of one woman - Kim Jiyoung - who is used as a placeholder for women in Korea in general。 A really illuminating read which I would recommend to anyone。I'm giving this a strong 3 stars， mainly because the prose was a little too sparse and barebones for my taste， and I really felt like the book could have benefited from being longer and allowing us to connect with the characters more。 It felt more l An interesting short novel about the pervasiveness of sexism in Korean society told through the lens of one woman - Kim Jiyoung - who is used as a placeholder for women in Korea in general。 A really illuminating read which I would recommend to anyone。I'm giving this a strong 3 stars， mainly because the prose was a little too sparse and barebones for my taste， and I really felt like the book could have benefited from being longer and allowing us to connect with the characters more。 It felt more like the draft of a fleshed out novel than a complete work。 。。。more
TBB
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if you liked this， you'll like: Invisible Women if you liked this， you'll like: Invisible Women 。。。more
Nivetha Prabaharan
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4。5
Yoyinime
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Me ha parecido un muy buen libro， te permite ver la vida que han llevado las mujeres en la sociedad y cultura coreana durante las diferentes generaciones， aportandote datos reales。 La historia de nuestra protagonista y sus vivencias es un claro ejemplo de las desigualdades de genero tan grandes que a día de hoy se siguen viviendo y me ha encantado la frase final con la que concluye el libro， porque es la clara representacion de la doble moral。
Lucy
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I'm not sure how I heard about this book， but I needed a quick book to read for this reading challenge。 When I started off this book， it felt very like The Vegetarian because it was about a housewife who started to experience something strange which you're not entirely sure is due to mental illness or to her being possessed。 But then it veers off into the summary of her life and how sexism impacts her at every stage。 We see her growing her as the unwanted daughter to a beloved younger brother， a I'm not sure how I heard about this book， but I needed a quick book to read for this reading challenge。 When I started off this book， it felt very like The Vegetarian because it was about a housewife who started to experience something strange which you're not entirely sure is due to mental illness or to her being possessed。 But then it veers off into the summary of her life and how sexism impacts her at every stage。 We see her growing her as the unwanted daughter to a beloved younger brother， and then as someone who gets asked questions about how she would deal with sexual harrassment at a job interview， all the way to a woman who has to ignore a client's sleazy jokes at her marketing job。 The author included several statistics as footnotes as the book continued， which were interesting。 Then at the end we find out （view spoiler）[it was her psychiatrist who was recounting this summary of her life and， despite hearing all about it， still didn't see anything wrong with his view of his own staff （hide spoiler）]。 There were several quotes which I really liked， especially the one when Jiyoung thought about the double standards between a wife and husband， in terms of dealing with in-laws and housework， but the one I really liked was when Jiyoung confronted her husband about how she was the one who would be giving up everything when they had children。 This was a book I enjoyed and it was a good length as well。 4。5 stars！ 。。。more
Eitakbackwards
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