Stolen: A Memoir

Stolen: A Memoir

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  • Author:Elizabeth Gilpin
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Summary

In the vein of Know My Name and Unorthodox, debut author Elizabeth Gilpin grippingly chronicles her harrowing experience of psychological manipulation and abuse at a "therapeutic" boarding school for troubled teens, and how she was able to heal in the aftermath。

At fifteen, Elizabeth was an honor student, a state-ranked swimmer and a rising soccer star, but behind closed doors, her dysfunctional family was tearing her apart。 Growing angrier by the day, she began drinking to excess, missing practices, and acting out。 Her parents and school counselors deemed her impossible and petulant, and decided that Elizabeth needed a school program with strict behavioral limitations。 Her life was then ripped in two: the years before she was kidnapped in the middle of the night at the request of her parents, and everything that came after。


Officially, Carlbrook, the institution where she was held for two years, was a therapeutic boarding school for troubled teens。 In reality, it was more of a prison than a school, where children were known only by their number。 The staff was a group of under-qualified and unstable counselors who practiced a perverse form of pseudo-therapy on their charges。 Elizabeth was stripped of basic human rights, forced to participate in mismanaged group therapy sessions, and force fed when she wouldn't eat。


In STOLEN, Elizabeth chronicles the abuse she endured, the friends she lost to suicide and addiction, and, years later, the way she was finally able to pick up the pieces。

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Reviews

Marissa Pulice

This isn’t really a 5 star finish but it’s a 5 star eye-opener。 I have heard of the troubled teen industry but had not gotten into the nitty gritty of it before reading this。 The end, as I indicated is a little weak。 Maybe it’s because I cannot get over the feeling of anger at Gilpin’s parents that she says she doesn’t blame for, or maybe because everything happened so quickly following her graduation。 Or maybe because that’s the nature of memoir when the author is a 32 year old who is not that This isn’t really a 5 star finish but it’s a 5 star eye-opener。 I have heard of the troubled teen industry but had not gotten into the nitty gritty of it before reading this。 The end, as I indicated is a little weak。 Maybe it’s because I cannot get over the feeling of anger at Gilpin’s parents that she says she doesn’t blame for, or maybe because everything happened so quickly following her graduation。 Or maybe because that’s the nature of memoir when the author is a 32 year old who is not that far removed from the trauma she’s writing about。 The audiobook for this one is helpful。 The author reads robotically which takes getting used to but her voice breaks at times and what I maybe would have sped read over really hit me right in the feels。 。。。more

Ann Campbell

This was a well-written memoir about wilderness and therapeutic boarding school programs for troubled teens。 It was worlds better than another memoir I read on this subject, which was basically incoherent。 Gilpin has a strong voice, organizes the memoir chronologically, and provides detailed descriptions of the traumatic experiences she had in one of these programs。 And they do sound abusive and terrible。 She does come off as a troubled person (at least as a teen) with a lot of anger and poor ju This was a well-written memoir about wilderness and therapeutic boarding school programs for troubled teens。 It was worlds better than another memoir I read on this subject, which was basically incoherent。 Gilpin has a strong voice, organizes the memoir chronologically, and provides detailed descriptions of the traumatic experiences she had in one of these programs。 And they do sound abusive and terrible。 She does come off as a troubled person (at least as a teen) with a lot of anger and poor judgment。 I don't think I'd like her, and I would find her a difficult child to raise。 Her behavior as a young adult is incredibly irresponsible and self-destructive, which seems to affirm that she did have problems that were more serious than she admits early on。 It's hard to know how parents should deal with angry, risk-taking teens, but these boarding schools are not the way。 The wilderness part of the training sounded like hell, and the boarding school didn't sound much better。 。。。more

Courtney Capone

Gilpin sheds some light on the ‘troubled teen industry’ and the psychological torture kids go through in these programs。 Years of trauma and CPTSD are the result of places like this, CEDU, WWASP。 Gilpin really transports you to her teenage self。 Glad that this book is joining the Breaking Code Silence movement in exposing these programs that masquerade as boarding schools。

Jennifer

I listened to the audiobook version of this, read by the author。 Hearing her voice break with obvious emotion describing some of the horrific experiences she was made to go through in her "therapeutic boarding school" and before that, wilderness camp, was so heartbreaking it brought me to tears。。。 Exposing this industry is so important。 I knew next to nothing about the "therapeutic practices" of these type institutions before diving into this memoir。 The humiliation and degradation she went thro I listened to the audiobook version of this, read by the author。 Hearing her voice break with obvious emotion describing some of the horrific experiences she was made to go through in her "therapeutic boarding school" and before that, wilderness camp, was so heartbreaking it brought me to tears。。。 Exposing this industry is so important。 I knew next to nothing about the "therapeutic practices" of these type institutions before diving into this memoir。 The humiliation and degradation she went through in the name of "therapy" is utterly disgraceful。 I hope that in telling her story and exposing what horrors await teens in (who knows how many of) these expensive, unregulated institutions, more parents will heed the warnings and see that they are not the answer。 So many suicides, so much anger compounded by feeling dismissed and abandoned by family, loss of trust, trauma on top of trauma。 Elizabeth's account is brutally honest and hard to hear, but I think it's very important to be aware of these kinds of experiences and preventable horrors。 。。。more

Morgan Marie

“That even in the darkest situations, an individual’s attitude has a real effect on whether or not they make it through… I couldn’t control my circumstances, but I could control my own reactions。” Thank you @grandcentralpub for this gifted copy in exchange for an honest review! 📚💕This was an extremely intense, terrifying, and heartbreaking memoir, a memoir that honestly read like fiction because of how incomprehensible Elizabeth’s experiences were。 I applaud Elizabeth and her strength for sharin “That even in the darkest situations, an individual’s attitude has a real effect on whether or not they make it through… I couldn’t control my circumstances, but I could control my own reactions。” Thank you @grandcentralpub for this gifted copy in exchange for an honest review! 📚💕This was an extremely intense, terrifying, and heartbreaking memoir, a memoir that honestly read like fiction because of how incomprehensible Elizabeth’s experiences were。 I applaud Elizabeth and her strength for sharing her story and the stories of so many others, stories filled with emotional abuse, physical abuse, manipulation, and so much more。 Although this was not an easy read, I am glad that I read it。 Prior to read this memoir, I had very little knowledge of the “Troubled Teen Industry,” so I learned a lot from these horrifying pages。 Elizabeth’s experiences of being kidnapped by professionals hired by her parents, her three months in the woods, and her time at Carlbrook were eye-opening and sickening。 Through this memoir, tribute was paid to teens, teens who did make it out and teens who did not, who went through similar experiences。 Elizabeth’s story will hopefully make some parents second guess these “therapeutic” schools/programs and ultimately save many teenagers’ lives and futures。 Synopsis:Elizabeth Gilpin was a star athlete and honor student, but she also had undiagnosed depression。 This depression and Elizabeth’s inability to cope and control her feelings left her parents at a loss, until they met with an educational consultant and forced Elizabeth down a manipulative, dangerous, and abusive two years of her life…Elizabeth shares her experiences in an effort to expose the horrific “Troubled Teen Industry” and to heal from her time in it。 。。。more

Jim

I’ve given myself a few days to think this over, and I’m still not sure how I feel about it。This is a memoir by a woman who spent her late teens inside the “troubled teen industry,” first in a wilderness intake program, followed by a stay at a therapy boarding school。This is set up as an inside look at an abusive program told by someone who had to go through it。 And while it’s obvious that these programs were stupid and terrible and not at all a good way of rehabilitating troubled teens, Gilpin I’ve given myself a few days to think this over, and I’m still not sure how I feel about it。This is a memoir by a woman who spent her late teens inside the “troubled teen industry,” first in a wilderness intake program, followed by a stay at a therapy boarding school。This is set up as an inside look at an abusive program told by someone who had to go through it。 And while it’s obvious that these programs were stupid and terrible and not at all a good way of rehabilitating troubled teens, Gilpin herself doesn’t seem like the most reliable guide。 Even with the perspective of hindsight she doesn’t seem to have an appreciation for how her anger was affecting her family。 On the other hand, she does understand now that she was suffering from mental illness, and maybe the attitude toward her family was just her way of showing us her thought process at the time? She’s definitely a victim in this story - she needed good, professional therapy and instead just got sent away - but its clear she’s walking us through a story she still doesn’t have clarity about。 Or closure。 Her adult life has been very rocky。But … it makes for a powerful audiobook。 Gilpin cries throughout the book, and it’s obvious from the jarring edits (almost creepy to listen to at night while walking the dog) that her emotional state caused several parts to have to be re-recorded。 She spends the entire last section of the book almost wailing。 She is still feeling all of this like it happened yesterday, and she makes you feel it along with her。I really appreciate Gilpin sharing her story。 。。。more

Enigmaticblue

I'd heard a lot about these programs, and the inside view was gripping。 I had a really hard time putting it down。 I'd heard a lot about these programs, and the inside view was gripping。 I had a really hard time putting it down。 。。。more

Dameon Fowler

Warning for parents! If your child needs a little extra help please be careful where you send them。 There are places that will only agitate their issues。 Elizabeth had to go through a lot including "healing" practices that didn't stop until she and all the others started crying。 Those practices didn't do anything but add trauma to her mental health issue called depression。 Show your child you love them and give them the help they need but please be careful! Warning for parents! If your child needs a little extra help please be careful where you send them。 There are places that will only agitate their issues。 Elizabeth had to go through a lot including "healing" practices that didn't stop until she and all the others started crying。 Those practices didn't do anything but add trauma to her mental health issue called depression。 Show your child you love them and give them the help they need but please be careful! 。。。more

Susan

This was like reading a horror story! How any parent could send their child away to a cult-owned, organized and led attitude readjustment "school" is beyond my comprenhension。 Elizabeth was sent to the school by her parents when she was 15。 The first stage of the school was downright abusive and horrifying。 Then when she finally got to the school proper, she encountered abusive and creepy instructors and practices。 It seems to me that the author was lucky she made it out of their alive and unmol This was like reading a horror story! How any parent could send their child away to a cult-owned, organized and led attitude readjustment "school" is beyond my comprenhension。 Elizabeth was sent to the school by her parents when she was 15。 The first stage of the school was downright abusive and horrifying。 Then when she finally got to the school proper, she encountered abusive and creepy instructors and practices。 It seems to me that the author was lucky she made it out of their alive and unmolested by the "teachers。" 。。。more

Caroline Hailey

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Jasmine

Thanks so much to NetGalley, Grand Central Publishing, and Elizabeth Gilpin for this eARC in exchange for an honest review! “At fifteen, Elizabeth Gilpin was an honor student, a state-ranked swimmer, and a rising soccer star, but behind closed doors, her undiagnosed depression was wreaking havoc on her life。 Growing angrier by the day, she began skipping practices and drinking to excess。 At a loss, her parents turned to an educational consultant who suggested Elizabeth be enrolled in a behaviora Thanks so much to NetGalley, Grand Central Publishing, and Elizabeth Gilpin for this eARC in exchange for an honest review! “At fifteen, Elizabeth Gilpin was an honor student, a state-ranked swimmer, and a rising soccer star, but behind closed doors, her undiagnosed depression was wreaking havoc on her life。 Growing angrier by the day, she began skipping practices and drinking to excess。 At a loss, her parents turned to an educational consultant who suggested Elizabeth be enrolled in a behavioral modification program。 That recommendation would change her life forever”。If you need a cautionary tale of why you should listen to/try to understand or level with your children, this book will be vital to you。 This is also a potent reminder of how much distress and harm a human can push through and how sometimes they can come out (at least mostly) on the other side of things。 Stolen is also incredibly eye-opening and terrifying in the way that Elizabeth’s experience isn’t a one-of-a-kind thing。 It’s harrowing to read one account of extreme emotional and physical abuse and even more so to realize that there are so many others with stories of their own。 It’s a lot, but it is also essential。 There was a quote that kind of stuck with me, and it was, “I suffer from depression。 I'm not a drug addict, and my anger doesn't come from some unexplainable place。 I just have trouble regulating my mood sometimes, just like so many other people I know。 I didn't need to be sent away。 I didn't need a full-time “therapeutic community。” All I ever needed was for someone to take the time to really hear me。 To interpret the cry for help that was at the center of every explosive fight or drunken night。 I didn't need tough love。 I just needed a little extra help。”So yeah。 I can't really recommend this book enough。 It's four stars from me。 。。。more

Lexi

This book was completely and utterly devastating。 It is so heartbreaking, it sticks with you。 I can’t imagine how scary it was for the author to relive her experiences and write this book。 It needed to be said, and she is so incredibly brave。

Melissa

While this book dealt with a lot and included mental health struggles, trauma and addiction, the majority of this book reminded me of Leah Remini’s book because Gilpin’s “school” was run very much like the Scientology cult。 So many parts of the book broke my heart。 And there are pretty much all the trigger warnings here, but it was an important read and, while I’m sorry for what spurred it, I’m so glad Gilpin got to a place where she could share。 I especially appreciated her insights about how s While this book dealt with a lot and included mental health struggles, trauma and addiction, the majority of this book reminded me of Leah Remini’s book because Gilpin’s “school” was run very much like the Scientology cult。 So many parts of the book broke my heart。 And there are pretty much all the trigger warnings here, but it was an important read and, while I’m sorry for what spurred it, I’m so glad Gilpin got to a place where she could share。 I especially appreciated her insights about how sometimes what teens struggling really need is attention and someone to listen。 。。。more

Janine Simonton

Thought provoking!

Traci Lopes

This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers。 To view it, click here。 The only complaint I have about this book is that I wish the chapters about the woods was shorter and her life after the school to be longer。 I cannot believe the things Elizabeth went through and no offence to her parents but my god- if I went through that type of mental abuse because I blew a guy and smoked some pot when I was fifteen I would NEVER forgive them。 It’s sad how many parents don’t know how to deal with the teenage years and resort to just abandoning their trouble teen。 I did find The only complaint I have about this book is that I wish the chapters about the woods was shorter and her life after the school to be longer。 I cannot believe the things Elizabeth went through and no offence to her parents but my god- if I went through that type of mental abuse because I blew a guy and smoked some pot when I was fifteen I would NEVER forgive them。 It’s sad how many parents don’t know how to deal with the teenage years and resort to just abandoning their trouble teen。 I did find the chapters to become a bit repetitive。 Overall a good read! Here comes some spoilers My dad used the threaten us when we were bad that he would drive us out to the woods, her parents basically did that, and she had to stay for over 100 days! I had to finish this book because I just kept thinking to myself that at one point the parents would come get her。 Nope, 100 days in the woods and like two years in that horrible school。 Poor thing。 Good exposure to what goes on。 。。。more

tobes

I Laughed, I Cried, I Had to Pretend I DiedI went to Carlbrook with Elizabeth and this book is basically perfect in my eyes。 It encapsulates the experience and feeling of the place so well, and she writes in such a clear and relatable voice。 I had so many feelings come up and I’m grateful for all of them。

Laura Nelson

Thank you to @grandcentralpub and Elizabeth Gilpin for a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an honest review。"A gripping chronicle of psychological manipulation and abuse at a "therapeutic" boarding school for troubled teens, and how one young woman fought to heal in the aftermath。"Review: This is an incredibly insightful and heart breaking memoir showcasing the manipulation, abuse and truly horrific events teens suffered at therapeutic boarding schools, such as Carlbrook's。The auth Thank you to @grandcentralpub and Elizabeth Gilpin for a complimentary copy of this book in exchange for an honest review。"A gripping chronicle of psychological manipulation and abuse at a "therapeutic" boarding school for troubled teens, and how one young woman fought to heal in the aftermath。"Review: This is an incredibly insightful and heart breaking memoir showcasing the manipulation, abuse and truly horrific events teens suffered at therapeutic boarding schools, such as Carlbrook's。The author introduces the reader to the troubled teen industry, shedding light on the importance of mental health, and the challenges teens faced while struggling with addiction, suicidal ideation, abuse, trauma, depression and finding their identity。This novel is an emotional and eye-opening journey, as the author takes us through personal accounts of the traumatic experiences she faced within the industry, and the side effects of the abuse she endured following graduation。I truly could not stop reading this novel。 This book deserves so much recognition, a voice to be heard in bringing awareness to mental health and this industry。 Thank you Elizabeth for sharing your story。 I would absolutely recommend this read。 。。。more

Jeri

I listened to this book on Audible and it was very painful to get through。 I hope that any parent thinking of sending their teen to a camp would read this book at think twice。

Allison

Like getting punched in the gut with my own history。 Some of the details are different from my therapeutic boarding school, but a remarkable number of them are the same。 The CEDU schools varied less than I thought。 I’ve gotten used to thinking of my own history as sort of banal; that it was weird but that I escaped the true horrors of the TTI by going to one of the top-tier schools。 It’s jarring to read about exercises I did, songs I heard, and behaviors I was encouraged to do, and to see them l Like getting punched in the gut with my own history。 Some of the details are different from my therapeutic boarding school, but a remarkable number of them are the same。 The CEDU schools varied less than I thought。 I’ve gotten used to thinking of my own history as sort of banal; that it was weird but that I escaped the true horrors of the TTI by going to one of the top-tier schools。 It’s jarring to read about exercises I did, songs I heard, and behaviors I was encouraged to do, and to see them labeled as abuse。 I think I’ve coped by downplaying it, but I’m so, so glad that this book exists, to remind me that I wasn’t alone in my experiences and to shine a light on an industry that operates almost entirely in darkness。 。。。more

Nicole Vermette

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Jenn (burlingtonbibliophagist)

BOOK REVIEWStolen by Elizabeth GilpinA memoirMy stand on memoirs- Ones perspective and experience cannot be judged - it is through their own personal lens that the wordsThis read made me heartbroken。 For Elizabeth, for her friends who suffered along with her, for children with mental health issues that are told they need to be “fixed”, for the parents that may have thought they were doing the right thing。TaKe a moment to place yourself in Elizabeth’s shoes - not to understand, or judge but to li BOOK REVIEWStolen by Elizabeth GilpinA memoirMy stand on memoirs- Ones perspective and experience cannot be judged - it is through their own personal lens that the wordsThis read made me heartbroken。 For Elizabeth, for her friends who suffered along with her, for children with mental health issues that are told they need to be “fixed”, for the parents that may have thought they were doing the right thing。TaKe a moment to place yourself in Elizabeth’s shoes - not to understand, or judge but to listen- so her voice can be heard。 Thanks to @grandcentralpub for my copy in return for an honest review 。。。more

Jenna

💫 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐧: 𝐀 𝐌𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐢𝐫 💫 ⁣𝘉𝘺 𝘌𝘭𝘪𝘻𝘢𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘩 𝘎𝘪𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯⁣𝘗𝘶𝘣𝘭𝘪𝘴𝘩𝘦𝘳: @grandcentralpub ⁣𝘗𝘶𝘣 𝘋𝘢𝘵𝘦: 𝘑𝘶𝘭𝘺 𝟸𝟶, 𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟷⁣⁣It reads like a fiction novel full of pain and tragedy in all forms。 No one won。 The parents who thought they were doing the right thing (𝘰𝘳 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵’𝘴 𝘵𝘰𝘰 𝘮𝘶𝘤𝘩 𝘭𝘦𝘦𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮: 𝘧𝘦𝘭𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘩𝘢𝘥 𝘯𝘰 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘪𝘤𝘦)。 The daughter who felt forgotten and filled with anger。 The siblings whose home life was affected by the process of everything that happened。 ⁣⁣This is a memoir that sat deep in my gut knowing 💫 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐥𝐞𝐧: 𝐀 𝐌𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐢𝐫 💫 ⁣𝘉𝘺 𝘌𝘭𝘪𝘻𝘢𝘣𝘦𝘵𝘩 𝘎𝘪𝘭𝘱𝘪𝘯⁣𝘗𝘶𝘣𝘭𝘪𝘴𝘩𝘦𝘳: @grandcentralpub ⁣𝘗𝘶𝘣 𝘋𝘢𝘵𝘦: 𝘑𝘶𝘭𝘺 𝟸𝟶, 𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟷⁣⁣It reads like a fiction novel full of pain and tragedy in all forms。 No one won。 The parents who thought they were doing the right thing (𝘰𝘳 𝘪𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵’𝘴 𝘵𝘰𝘰 𝘮𝘶𝘤𝘩 𝘭𝘦𝘦𝘸𝘢𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮: 𝘧𝘦𝘭𝘵 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘺 𝘩𝘢𝘥 𝘯𝘰 𝘤𝘩𝘰𝘪𝘤𝘦)。 The daughter who felt forgotten and filled with anger。 The siblings whose home life was affected by the process of everything that happened。 ⁣⁣This is a memoir that sat deep in my gut knowing that what I was reading was truth。 Perhaps with the fog of depression through the pages。 But the underlying feeling was pain for Elizabeth。 ⁣⁣I caution anyone picking up the book with the triggers of abuse within a facility; as the author is very blunt with her experience within her “troubled kids centre”。 If you feel like it may be too much to read, then I would agree。 It was hard for me and I haven’t dealt with any of the levels of trauma she did。 ⁣⁣This book opened my eyes to what happened in so many “fix-it” centre’s。 But part of me was angry because I do not understand how any one thought in good conscience that tearing teens from their family and treating them no differently than working concentration camps (𝘺𝘦𝘱, 𝘐 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦’𝘴 𝘢 𝘓𝘖𝘛 𝘰𝘧 𝘴𝘪𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘦𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘮𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘵𝘳𝘰𝘭) would “solve” the problem。 ⁣⁣Perhaps the families were at wits end。 And I have no experience with that so I cannot speak to it。 All I hope is that with books like this we, collectively, understand that hidden pain or trauma needs to be dealt with with supports。 Not sent away。 Or traumatized out of。 ⁣⁣𝘚𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵𝘦: 𝘐 𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘦 𝘗𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘴 𝘏𝘪𝘭𝘵𝘰𝘯 𝘫𝘶𝘴𝘵 𝘥𝘪𝘥 𝘢 𝘥𝘰𝘤𝘶𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘺 𝘢𝘣𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘪𝘮𝘪𝘭𝘢𝘳。 𝘐 𝘱𝘭𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘯 𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘤𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘪𝘵 𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘢𝘴 𝘸𝘦𝘭𝘭。 ⁣⁣Bravo Elizabeth for speaking your truth。 ⁣⁣My heart hurts ⁣⁣ 。。。more

Coquille Fleur

I admire the courage it must have taken Elizabeth Gilpin to write this memoir。 Her story is raw and real, full of heartbreak, hopelessness and ultimately hope。 Gilpin exposes the troubled teen industry for the moneymaking, abusive, fucked up business model it truly is and shows through her own story how traumatizing these "therapeutic boarding schools" are for the kids that get locked away there。 Gilpin's voice is strong even as she writes about the brainwashing she endured at Carlbrook。 I like I admire the courage it must have taken Elizabeth Gilpin to write this memoir。 Her story is raw and real, full of heartbreak, hopelessness and ultimately hope。 Gilpin exposes the troubled teen industry for the moneymaking, abusive, fucked up business model it truly is and shows through her own story how traumatizing these "therapeutic boarding schools" are for the kids that get locked away there。 Gilpin's voice is strong even as she writes about the brainwashing she endured at Carlbrook。 I like how she balanced her story with just enough background on the Synanon Cult and CEDU to educate folks about the history of these programs without getting bogged down in too much explaining。 I also liked how she wrote about her life after Carlbrook and how messed up it was for so long。 It's sad how many of the kids that end up at these schools die soon after and how those that survive are plagued with PTSD for the rest of their lives。 One part that sort of bothered me, and this may sound silly, is that she describes an event at wilderness school where she was forced to eat green peppers and puked them up and a staff person was trying to force her to eat the puke。 Then the chapter just ended without going on to say what happened either way。 I know it might be triggering and maybe that's why she chose to stop there, but it almost bothers me more not knowing。 Anyway, it just goes to show how this memoir got under my skin, and that's a good thing。 The more people that share their experiences at these places, the more chance they can save others from the same fate。 。。。more

thereadingowlvina (Elvina Ulrich)

Synopsis: At fifteen, Elizabeth Gilpin was an excellent student with a promising future ahead of her。 But her undiagnosed depression caused her to act in disruptive ways。 In order to save her, her parents consulted an educational consultant who suggested a behavioral modification program。 It began with her being abducted in the middle of the night, and dropped off in the woods of Appalachia, and after three brutal months, she is transferred to Carlbrook School ("theraupeutic" boarding school Synopsis: At fifteen, Elizabeth Gilpin was an excellent student with a promising future ahead of her。 But her undiagnosed depression caused her to act in disruptive ways。 In order to save her, her parents consulted an educational consultant who suggested a behavioral modification program。 It began with her being abducted in the middle of the night, and dropped off in the woods of Appalachia, and after three brutal months, she is transferred to Carlbrook School ("theraupeutic" boarding school) where she endured more psychological torment and humiliation until her graduation。 My thoughts: This was a gripping and heartbreaking memoir and I truly appreciate the author sharing her story。 It was really an eye-opening one as I did not know such facilities exist, nor did I know about the lucrative "troubled teen" industry。 I do not know how such facilities can still operate without scrutiny from authorities。 I was totally invested in Elizabeth's story and finished this book in one sitting! Her writing was so engaging, honest and emotional。 The workshops and programs she endured were clearly not helping the students。 Instead, they caused so much more psychological issues even after they graduated。This was one compelling memoir and I am so glad to have read it! Pub。 Date: July 20th, 2021***Thank you Grand Central Publishing and author Elizabeth Gilpin for this gifted copy to read and review。*** 。。。more

Brynn | readyourworriesaway

It’s hard to come up with the words to describe what I just read。 I first learned about the “Troubled Teen Industry” a few months back when I heard a survivor’s story on a podcast。 I had no idea that these facilities even existed, and it is absolutely horrifying that they are still legal in some states。 According to Refinery29, it is estimated that 50,000 kids are forced into these facilities each year (mostly because their parents feel that they can’t “fix” their kid)。 At 15 years old Elizabeth It’s hard to come up with the words to describe what I just read。 I first learned about the “Troubled Teen Industry” a few months back when I heard a survivor’s story on a podcast。 I had no idea that these facilities even existed, and it is absolutely horrifying that they are still legal in some states。 According to Refinery29, it is estimated that 50,000 kids are forced into these facilities each year (mostly because their parents feel that they can’t “fix” their kid)。 At 15 years old Elizabeth was abducted from her bed in the middle of the night — and her parents were the ones who planned it。 They wanted her to be sent off to a “therapeutic boarding school” because she was often angry and began drinking more and more。 She spent three brutal months living in the woods of Appalachia, where her name was changed to a number, and where she was physically tested everyday on her will to survive。 From there she was sent to a boarding school in southern Virginia that felt like a prison。 The students were psychologically abused every day through group therapy sessions where they were humiliated and made to feel useless。 Elizabeth “graduated” when she was 18, but that didn’t mean her life went back to normal。 She left more angry than she was when she arrived。 Elizabeth was filled with trauma and horrific memories from her time at Carlbrook, in addition to losing friends to suicide and addiction。 Elizabeth Gilpin is beyond brave for facing her past in order to bring awareness to the “Troubled Teen Industry。” Her memoir will hopefully stop families from sending their children to these facilities, and give a voice to others that were emotionally and physically abused at the hands of these “therapeutic” boarding schools。 。。。more

Katie

The true story of how Elizabeth Gilpin was kidnapped from her room in the middle of the night and taken to a behavioral modification camp。 Her parents had enough of her raging anger, bad attitude, and excessive drinking。 Their solution was to enroll her in a place that would change everything and bring back their little girl。 This is the story of how Elizabeth endured a disturbing and unreal series of places all in the name of changing her life。 I read this entire book in one sitting。 While it's The true story of how Elizabeth Gilpin was kidnapped from her room in the middle of the night and taken to a behavioral modification camp。 Her parents had enough of her raging anger, bad attitude, and excessive drinking。 Their solution was to enroll her in a place that would change everything and bring back their little girl。 This is the story of how Elizabeth endured a disturbing and unreal series of places all in the name of changing her life。 I read this entire book in one sitting。 While it's not the most in-depth or well-written memoir of all time, it was gripping。 The story is mind blowing, and it's absolutely crazy to think this was happening not that long ago。 Gilpin's memories will have you in disbelief from start to finish。Thank you so much to Grand Central Publishing for the free review copy! 。。。more

Krista

I couldn’t put this memoir down。 Gilpin’s language is so straightforward and unadorned that the reality of the horrors she lived through are starkly rendered。 Her strength to survive is impressive。 The labor it must have taken to write this book is even more so。 Recommended for fans of Educated or The Glass Castle。NetGalley provided me with an arc in exchange for an honest review。

Tiffany

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for a DRC of this book。I've been in a memoir mood, and thought that the concept of this memoir looked interesting。 I had seen the reality TV shows about wilderness programs, where "troubled" teens were taken in the woods to learn how to be better people and had heard of "therapeutic" schools where these teens were ultimately sent in an effort to curb their "troublesome" behavior。 So Gilpin's memoir looked compelling。At the age of 15, Gilpin is living what Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for a DRC of this book。I've been in a memoir mood, and thought that the concept of this memoir looked interesting。 I had seen the reality TV shows about wilderness programs, where "troubled" teens were taken in the woods to learn how to be better people and had heard of "therapeutic" schools where these teens were ultimately sent in an effort to curb their "troublesome" behavior。 So Gilpin's memoir looked compelling。At the age of 15, Gilpin is living what sounds like a relatively normal teen life。 However, she pushes the boundaries and argues with her parents frequently than they would like。 Out of desperation, her parents decide to send her away。 They hire an escort company to essentially kidnap Gilpin out of her bed while she is sleeping and transport her to a wilderness program, where she has to live in the woods with other teenage girls until the program has deemed her reformed enough to be sent to a "therapeutic" high school。 There, the goal is not education but reformation。This memoir was, at times, painful to read。 Gilpin makes it clear that she was suffering from untreated mental health issues during the years before her kidnapping, which led to her acting out。 The trauma of the kidnapping, months in the wilderness program, and then years in the therapeutic high school brought was just horrible。 I ended up reading the last 75% of this book in one sitting。Overall, a compelling look at programs designed to help "troubled" youth from someone who experienced them。 Would recommend to anyone interested in these topics with the caveat that this is a memoir and as such one sided。 I am very much unread in this area, and can't speak to any sort of bias so I would recommend further reading。 。。。more

Jackson D。

An insightful and deeply moving book that I was unable to put down。 Having only a baseline knowledge of the troubled teen industry, I was taken aback by what the author outlined of her experience。 Ms。 Gilpin’s debut memoir displays not just incredible clarity of thought, but true bravery for the willingness to share the personal, gripping, and defining experiences that shape our lives。 The writing is eloquent and enthralling— a must-read。

Annabel

Elizabeth and I went through these programs together, so, of course, I relate to the experiences she describes in Stolen。 However, there are two things that I genuinely appreciate about this book: first, that she includes some of the more harrowing moments of our time there and, second, that she introduces the troubled teen industry as a whole。 This is a critical aspect of Stolen, as the troubled teen industry is not widely known, and our school is one among countless others。 For the general pub Elizabeth and I went through these programs together, so, of course, I relate to the experiences she describes in Stolen。 However, there are two things that I genuinely appreciate about this book: first, that she includes some of the more harrowing moments of our time there and, second, that she introduces the troubled teen industry as a whole。 This is a critical aspect of Stolen, as the troubled teen industry is not widely known, and our school is one among countless others。 For the general public, Stolen provides insight into an unregulated industry that deserves scrutiny。 For former students, it gives voice to our collective experiences in private programs like Carlbrook-stories that are often not told, and if they are, they are not believed。 。。。more