First Friends: The Powerful, Unsung (And Unelected) People Who Shaped Our Presidents

First Friends: The Powerful, Unsung (And Unelected) People Who Shaped Our Presidents

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  • Author:Gary Ginsberg
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Summary

In the bestselling tradition of The Presidents Club and Presidential Courage, White House history as told through the stories of the best friends and closest confidants of American presidents。

Here are the riveting histories of myriad presidential friendships, among them:

Abraham Lincoln and Joshua Speed: They shared a bed for four years during which Speed saved his friend from a crippling depression。 Two decades later the friends worked together to save the Union。 

Harry Truman and Eddie Jacobson: When Truman wavered on whether to recognize the state of Israel in 1948, his lifelong friend and former business partner intervened at just the right moment with just the right words to steer the president’s decision。 

Franklin Delano Roosevelt and Daisy Suckley: Unassuming and overlooked during her lifetime, Daisy Suckley was in reality FDR’s most trusted, constant confidant, the respite for a lonely and overworked President navigating the Great Depression and World War II

John Kennedy and David Ormsby-Gore: They met as young men in pre-war London and began a conversation over the meaning of leadership。  A generation later the Cuban Missile Crisis would put their ideas to test as Ormsby-Gore became the president’s unofficial, but most valued foreign policy advisor。
These and other friendships—including Thomas Jefferson and James MadisonFranklin Pierce and Nathaniel Hawthorne, and Bill Clinton and Vernon Jordan—populate this fresh and provocative exploration of a series of seminal presidential friendships。

Publishing history teems with books by and about Presidents, First Ladies, First Pets, and even First Chefs。 Now former Clinton aide Gary Ginsberg breaks new literary ground on Pennsylvania Avenue and provides fresh insights into the lives of the men who held the most powerful political office in the world by looking at the friends on whom they relied。

First Friends is an engaging, serendipitous look into the lives of Commanders-in-Chief and how their presidencies were shaped by those they held most dear。

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Reviews

Nancy

Gary Ginsberg has introduced me to past presidents through a totally fresh portal。 。 。 Their best friends。 I loved his approach to the stories, the accessibility of the historical/political information, and the increased insight it offered me on how our lives can be affected by who we choose to listen to, and talk to。I loved every minute I spent with this intelligent, interesting book。 And, it will make me a more interesting dinner companion because of the trove of fresh anecdotes I can recount。 Gary Ginsberg has introduced me to past presidents through a totally fresh portal。 。 。 Their best friends。 I loved his approach to the stories, the accessibility of the historical/political information, and the increased insight it offered me on how our lives can be affected by who we choose to listen to, and talk to。I loved every minute I spent with this intelligent, interesting book。 And, it will make me a more interesting dinner companion because of the trove of fresh anecdotes I can recount。 。 。 And, I think I will be a much more impressive trivia player if I can recall 1/10 of the fun facts Mr。 Ginsberg shares with us in FIRST FRIENDS。 。。。more

Nancy

Friends。Sometimes they save your life or help you become your best self。 They can be a sounding board and tell you the truth when others can’t。 Or, they can indulge or even share your darker side, your weaknesses, your vices。The friends of powerful people can sway decisions that affect more than one person or one family。 Like the president’s spouse, First Friends are unelected yet may have access to privileged information and great influence。First Friends is a unique presidential history in whic Friends。Sometimes they save your life or help you become your best self。 They can be a sounding board and tell you the truth when others can’t。 Or, they can indulge or even share your darker side, your weaknesses, your vices。The friends of powerful people can sway decisions that affect more than one person or one family。 Like the president’s spouse, First Friends are unelected yet may have access to privileged information and great influence。First Friends is a unique presidential history in which Gary Ginsburg portrays nine presidents and their best friends。 Although I have read biographies of most of these presidents, Ginsberg pulled out new understandings and gave me a greater depth of understanding。“…a First Friend is essential to presidential success,” Ginsberg asserts; “What unites the nine stories is the presence in each of a deep, abiding affection between two individuals。” Nathaniel Hawthorne actually said he loved his college buddy, the Southern, slave-owner Franklin Pierce and supported his political career even when Hawthorne’s Transcendentalist (and abolitionist) neighbors were appalled。Each friendship had a different impact on the president。Daisy Suckley gave her cousin President Franklin Roosevelt idolization, fun, and companionship with no political impact。 Eddie Jacobson pushed President Harry S。 Truman to recognize Israel after WWII, risking their long friendship。 Colonel House was a gatekeeper and fixer for President Woodrow Wilson during WWI。 Wilson stated, “I never met a man whose thought ran so identically with mine,” and gave him great power of decision。 (But Wilson’s second wife Edith couldn’t wait to push House out of power; after her husband’s stroke, she took over!)President Abraham Lincoln and Joshua Speed shared more than a bed; they both struggled with depression and fear of intimacy with a woman。 After Speed married, he wrote Lincoln that it went pretty well–don’t be afraid。 The Speed family’s slaves were a problem for Lincoln, but Speed was a pro-Union democrat who worked to keep Kentucky in the Union。 And, his abolitionist brother served as Lincoln’s attorney general。President John F。 Kennedy relied on the British ambassador David Ormsby-Gore during the Cuban Missile Crisis。 President Bill Clinton’s friend Vernon Jordan helped save his marriage after the Lewinsky scandal。 President Thomas Jefferson and President James Madison were intellectual powerhouses with a common heritage and political vision。If President Clinton was charming and made friends easily, President Richard Nixon was the opposite。 Kissinger wondered what kind of man he could have became had he been loved as a child。 His parents were strict。 He lost two brothers。 He was intelligent and driven–and ruthless。 His friendship with Bebe Rebozo gave him a respite, and they spent hours together without saying a word。 Rebozo could read Nixon’s mood, was always loyal, and never made demands。 Together, they managed to contribute to Nixon’s downfall。Accessible and enjoyable, First Friends would make a great read for those new to presidential biographies, but offers fresh insight for readers like me who have been reading about the presidents for a long time。I received a free egalley from the publisher through NetGalley。 My review is fair and unbiased。 。。。more

Emily Correia

Full disclosure, this book wasn’t bad at all, it just wasn’t right for me。 The book dives into the friendships of nine of our former presidents。 Some of the stories had really great stories about the friendships within the White House。 Though, I found the book a slow read。 The author shares so many details, likely in an effort to be thorough, that in many of the stories I found myself getting lost in the amount of information。 If you’re someone who likes American history, this book is great at s Full disclosure, this book wasn’t bad at all, it just wasn’t right for me。 The book dives into the friendships of nine of our former presidents。 Some of the stories had really great stories about the friendships within the White House。 Though, I found the book a slow read。 The author shares so many details, likely in an effort to be thorough, that in many of the stories I found myself getting lost in the amount of information。 If you’re someone who likes American history, this book is great at showing the “normal” sides of some of our nation’s former presidents。 。。。more