Pops: Learning to Be a Son and a Father

Pops: Learning to Be a Son and a Father

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  • Create Date:2021-06-16 02:31:03
  • Update Date:2025-09-06
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  • Author:Craig Melvin
  • ISBN:0063071991
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Summary

A powerful, intimate memoir and exploration of fatherhood and race from Craig Melvin, news anchor of NBC’s Today show。 

For Craig Melvin this book is more an investigation than a memoir。 It's an opportunity to better understand his father; to interrogate his family's legacy of addiction and despair but also transformation and redemption; and to explore the challenges facing all dads--including Craig himself, a father of two young children。

Growing up in Columbia, South Carolina, Craig had a fraught relationship with his father。 Lawrence Melvin was a distant, often absent parent due to his drinking as well as his job working the graveyard shift at a postal facility。 Watching sports and tinkering on Lawrence's beloved (but unreliable) 1973 Pontiac LeMans were two ways father and son connected, but as Lawrence's drinking spiraled out of control, their bond was stretched to the breaking point。 Fortunately, Craig had a loving, fiercely protective mother who held the family together。 He also had a series of surrogate father figures in his life--uncles, teachers, workplace mentors--who by their examples helped him figure out the kind of person and father he wanted to be。

Pops is the story of all these men--and of the inspiring fathers Craig has met reporting his "Dads Got This Series" on the Today show。 Pops is also the story of Craig and Lawrence Melvin's long journey to reconciliation and understanding, and of how all these experiences and encounters have informed Craig's understanding of his own role as a dad。 

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Reviews

Kathleen Gray

It's hard to review memoirs because it feels as though you are judging the author and their life choices。 That's not the case here。 Melvin has written a thoughtful and impactful book that looks not only at his own family but at others as well。 His father was an alcoholic and addict who has struggled mightily over the years。 He also was the impetus for Melvin to change the narrative for his future。 I liked that he wraps in life in South Carolina n the 80s and 90s and that he credits his mother, a It's hard to review memoirs because it feels as though you are judging the author and their life choices。 That's not the case here。 Melvin has written a thoughtful and impactful book that looks not only at his own family but at others as well。 His father was an alcoholic and addict who has struggled mightily over the years。 He also was the impetus for Melvin to change the narrative for his future。 I liked that he wraps in life in South Carolina n the 80s and 90s and that he credits his mother, an incredible woman, for doing all she could for him and his brothers。 He was lucky, he knows, to have had other men step in to provide more solid role models。 The transition to understanding and appreciating his father could not have been as easy as Melvin makes it appear but all credit to hm for doing the hard work。 Thanks to Edelweiss for the ARC。 An excellent read。 。。。more

Steph Carr (LiteraryHypeWoman)

Man, this is a good one。 Craig is pretty dang real about the struggles his family faced, from his dad's birth behind bars to alcoholism, gambling addiction, cancer。。。 the works。 Here shares about the lessons he's learned about fatherhood from the previous generations, which are beautiful and raw。 There are a few places I felt got bogged down with too much detail or slightly off topic, but overall, it's a solid read。 Man, this is a good one。 Craig is pretty dang real about the struggles his family faced, from his dad's birth behind bars to alcoholism, gambling addiction, cancer。。。 the works。 Here shares about the lessons he's learned about fatherhood from the previous generations, which are beautiful and raw。 There are a few places I felt got bogged down with too much detail or slightly off topic, but overall, it's a solid read。 。。。more

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It was a good read。