It Never Ends: A Memoir with Nice Memories!

It Never Ends: A Memoir with Nice Memories!

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  • Author:Tom Scharpling
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Summary

From the comedian, television writer, and host of the Best Show, a revealing and powerful memoir exploring a life of struggle and reinvention

"Tom Scharpling possesses more than merely a generation-defining comedic mind。 He has a heart as big as New Jersey, an eye as keen as a crow's, and a voice as powerful, pained, and righteous as a wounded god。 I AM NOT BEING HYPERBOLIC。" --John Hodgman, New York Times bestselling author of Vacationland

Tom Scharpling is good at being funny, which is a miracle, considering what he's survived。 Like hitting a deer and narrowly escaping with his life on the night of the 2016 election。 But that's nothing compared to the struggles he had earlier in his life。

It Never Ends is his memoir of a life writing comedy amidst a lifelong struggle with mental illness, a story he has never told before。 It’s the heartbreaking account of his intense coming-of-age, and the lengths he's undertaken to pull away from the brink of self-destruction。 Scharpling brought himself back to life first with punk zines and NBA coverage, then through the world of comedy, writing and executive producing Monk, and creating one of the most beloved, longest running comedy radio broadcasts/podcasts, The Best Show。 Of course, there are also the tangents into auditioning for The New Monkees, why Billy Joel sucks, the siren call of the Sex and the City slot machines, and how he made a fool of himself in an elevator with Patti Smith。

Tom is the quintessential underdog, and he wears that status on his sleeve as a badge of honor。 With this memoir, he lifts the curtain to let the light in on the turmoil that still follows him, even as he racks up accolades and achievements。 But most importantly, he reminds us that while many of us carry trauma and shame, we are not alone。 It Never Ends is about rising above whatever circumstance you find yourself in and getting the most out of your life, while steamrolling the chumps along the way。

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Reviews

Andrew Horton

I'm not going to spoil anything until everyone gets to read it, but; I knew it would be great, but I had no idea just how perfect it would be。 I'm not going to spoil anything until everyone gets to read it, but; I knew it would be great, but I had no idea just how perfect it would be。 。。。more

Lincoln Flynn

Full disclosure: I have been a fan of Tom Scharpling and THE BEST SHOW for over ten years now, and I have even met him! So I'm in the tank for the man。 Even biased, one could say。 Nonetheless, *I* can say with confidence that his memoir did not disappoint。Sure, the word "hero" gets thrown a lot these days, so much that me using "heroic" in this review could come across as disingenuous or ironic, but, seriously, the guy's story-- which involves perseverance and reinvention in the face of signific Full disclosure: I have been a fan of Tom Scharpling and THE BEST SHOW for over ten years now, and I have even met him! So I'm in the tank for the man。 Even biased, one could say。 Nonetheless, *I* can say with confidence that his memoir did not disappoint。Sure, the word "hero" gets thrown a lot these days, so much that me using "heroic" in this review could come across as disingenuous or ironic, but, seriously, the guy's story-- which involves perseverance and reinvention in the face of significant personal and psychological setback-- is heroic in a down-to-earth, relatable, hang-tough kind of way。 Similarly, reading the more personal passages IT NEVER ENDS reminded me of the times when I've had a longstanding friend, learned about their past directly from them, and thought "oh so *that's* why I feel a kinship with this person。" Intertwined with the harrowing, personal stuff is the funny stuff; Scharpling has an inimitable comedy mind after all。 Many stories shared in this book are ones that he has shared or mentioned on THE BEST SHOW, but they are the Director's Cut versions in that they're more detailed and thorough。 Furthermore, the previously untold material is just as good! In fact, IT NEVER ENDS feels like the comedy version of Neil Young's redefining compilation album DECADE-- it serves as a good introduction or summation of Scharpling's body-of-work and worldview while also including enough undiscovered territory to satisfy longtime fans like yours truly。(Yet, if I may lob a couple of complaints: I don't get Tom's fixation on coin pusher arcade machines and an entire chapter should have been dedicated to BEST SHOW associate producer A。P。 Mike and his tavern Massa's。) 。。。more

Heather

The vulnerability Scharpling exposes is extraordinary。 As a FOT I enjoy his wit, humor like anyone else。 This captivated me in a rare way。

Chris Scales

Tom Scharpling declared to listeners of The Best Show that when he tells his life story, there won't be a dry eye left in the house。 I thought he was kidding! He has now revealed more of that story, and the joke's on me。 I expected this book to be laugh out loud funny, and it is。 It's open and honest about trauma and struggle though, relating life events I couldn't have imagined that put the author and his achievements in a different light。 We all have our struggles, we all know people who are f Tom Scharpling declared to listeners of The Best Show that when he tells his life story, there won't be a dry eye left in the house。 I thought he was kidding! He has now revealed more of that story, and the joke's on me。 I expected this book to be laugh out loud funny, and it is。 It's open and honest about trauma and struggle though, relating life events I couldn't have imagined that put the author and his achievements in a different light。 We all have our struggles, we all know people who are fighting just to hang on through another day。 I found myself truly grateful for this book's open discussion of mental health while relating the author's childhood and adolescence, his creative career, and his mastery of a number of arcade games。 The book is so well written - once I settled down and dug into it, it was a genuine page-turner。 If you're a Best Show listener, you'll recognize a number of the anecdotes here, fit into the larger context of the author's life。 No surprise how well it all works; Tom Scharpling is just a great storyteller with a strong voice, who always leaves his audience wanting more。 I expect the book to find an audience beyond card-carrying Friends of Tom - it's a great, moving read that will break your heart, even while it keeps you laughing。 Jeez that sounds trite but, this is a brave, engrossing, and honest book that I hope is read and discussed far and wide。 New to Tom Scharpling? A great jumping on point! Read this and when you're done, as you lower your book and look at the world around you, you too will be able to say to yourself: "We get it。 They don't。" 。。。more

John

Like most fans of the “Best Show,” I would’ve enjoyed reading pretty much any book by Tom Scharpling—even if he’d pulled a Dennis Leary and done the difficult work of compiling his tweets。 Thankfully, that’s very much NOT what Tom has done with this incredibly honest and very funny memoir。 As promised, Tom wrote a book。 Turns out it’s as good as he said it would be。

Jessica Gentile

I knew this book would be funny, but I didn't expect such raw vulnerability and emotion。 Great stuff。 I knew this book would be funny, but I didn't expect such raw vulnerability and emotion。 Great stuff。 。。。more

Pramod

IT NEVER ENDS – A MEMOIRBY TOM SCHARPLINGPUBLISHER ABRAMS PRESS#NETGALLEY,#ABRAMS PRESS, #TOMSCHARPLING, #NONFICTIONI like to read about people who strive to fulfill their dreams。Tom Scharpling, a very funny man, wanted to be a writer。 And not any kind but a comedy writer。He achieves his goal, despite many adversities in the journey。 IT NEVER ENDS, is a well-written memoir, with lots of humor, sadness, and triumph。 Despite a few bumps along the way, Tom does eventually gets his talk show and bec IT NEVER ENDS – A MEMOIRBY TOM SCHARPLINGPUBLISHER ABRAMS PRESS#NETGALLEY,#ABRAMS PRESS, #TOMSCHARPLING, #NONFICTIONI like to read about people who strive to fulfill their dreams。Tom Scharpling, a very funny man, wanted to be a writer。 And not any kind but a comedy writer。He achieves his goal, despite many adversities in the journey。 IT NEVER ENDS, is a well-written memoir, with lots of humor, sadness, and triumph。 Despite a few bumps along the way, Tom does eventually gets his talk show and becomes a very popular character in the New Jersey area。。I enjoyed the book though I struggled to get through a few chapters where he mentions the pinball machines and video games。 I I will recommend the book to all nonfiction lovers and fans of Tom。Thanks to Tom Scharpling, Netgalley and Abram's Press for the chance to read the ARC。 。。。more

Scott Steinhardt

I must start this review by revealing a heavy bias: I've been a listener and follower of Tom's work for 15+ years。 He sent me a care package when I was in the hospital with cancer without even knowing who I was。 I've met him a few times since and he's been one of the kindest people I've met。Like Tom the person, Tom the memoirist is kind, funny, self-deprecating, and captivating。 The tragicomic story of his life in It Never Ends is inspiring and revealing in ways that Tom the radio host only hint I must start this review by revealing a heavy bias: I've been a listener and follower of Tom's work for 15+ years。 He sent me a care package when I was in the hospital with cancer without even knowing who I was。 I've met him a few times since and he's been one of the kindest people I've met。Like Tom the person, Tom the memoirist is kind, funny, self-deprecating, and captivating。 The tragicomic story of his life in It Never Ends is inspiring and revealing in ways that Tom the radio host only hinted at over the years。 Like his work in entertainment, Tom is funny at times but serious when need be, all while landing softly with a comforting, self-aware quip or experience to cushion the blow。It Never Ends fits right in line with the great, vulnerable memoirs from entertainers in recent years (like The Right Stuff by Wayne Kramer)。 It is a non-linear hike through Tom's personal history, one that any fan of Tom's work and/or brand of humor would greatly enjoy。 Would it be lost on those who don't know who Tom Scharpling is? Perhaps, but such is the nature of memoirs from those in entertainment。 Then again, we get it。 They don't。Thanks to Abrams for the ARC。 。。。more