How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self

How to Do the Work: Recognize Your Patterns, Heal from Your Past, and Create Your Self

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  • Author:Nicole LePera
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Summary

From Dr。 Nicole LePera, creator of "the holistic psychologist"—the online phenomenon with more than two million Instagram followers—comes a revolutionary approach to healing that harnesses the power of the self to produce lasting change。

As a clinical psychologist, Dr。 Nicole LePera often found herself frustrated by the limitations of traditional psychotherapy。 Wanting more for her patients—and for herself—she began a journey to develop a united philosophy of mental, physical and spiritual health that equips people with the interdisciplinary tools necessary to heal themselves。 After experiencing the life-changing results herself, she began to share what she’d learned with others—and soon “The Holistic Psychologist” was born。

Now, Dr。 LePera is ready to share her much-requested protocol with the world。 In How to Do the Work, she offers both a manifesto for self-healing as well as an essential guide to creating a more vibrant, authentic, and joyful life。 Drawing on the latest research from a diversity of scientific fields and healing modalities, Dr。 LePera helps us recognize how adverse experiences and trauma in childhood live with us, resulting in whole body dysfunction—activating armful stress responses that keep us stuck engaging in patterns of codependency, emotional immaturity, and trauma bonds。 Unless addressed, these self-sabotaging behaviors can quickly become cyclical, leaving people feeling unhappy, unfulfilled, and unwell。 

In How to Do the Work, Dr。 LePera offers readers the support and tools that will allow them to break free from destructive behaviors to reclaim and recreate their lives。 Nothing short of a paradigm shift, this is a celebration of empowerment that will forever change the way we approach mental health and self-care。


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Reviews

Estefania Alemany

I started following Nicole in 2018 right when I was learning about my trauma though I never thought I had trauma, until 2 years later I found a trauma therapist and started my healing process of complex PTSD。 This book is a must read, I don't know if I would have found my therapist if I haven't found Nicole on Instagram, and I wouldn't have started working on reparenting my inner child, doing breathwork, somatic movement, releasing anger, knowing i was crazy but I was dissociating, numbed all of I started following Nicole in 2018 right when I was learning about my trauma though I never thought I had trauma, until 2 years later I found a trauma therapist and started my healing process of complex PTSD。 This book is a must read, I don't know if I would have found my therapist if I haven't found Nicole on Instagram, and I wouldn't have started working on reparenting my inner child, doing breathwork, somatic movement, releasing anger, knowing i was crazy but I was dissociating, numbed all of my life。The book is the sum of all trauma therapy work explained in a way that's accesible to everyone。Thank Nicole for this amazing book。 。。。more

Melissa

I found some real great tools in this book。 She speaks plainly and is very relatable。 I had to rework the ‘work’ I n my head to come alongside my Christian worldview, but I’m very used to that with this type of reading。

Rachel Oppitz

A really good starting point; each chapter could potentially be expanded into a book of its own to provide further guidance on each respective topic。

Kloee Taylor

This book (as I expected) was exactly what I needed。 At many points I felt like the book was written specifically for me and my own experiences in childhood。 I love the way Dr。 Nicole lays out the foundation for healing so that anyone can start right where they are。 This book felt like several therapy sessions wrapped into one beautiful composition。 Highly recommend for anyone wanting to take a deeper dive into themselves。 It isn’t always an easy read (as self awareness and self reflection can b This book (as I expected) was exactly what I needed。 At many points I felt like the book was written specifically for me and my own experiences in childhood。 I love the way Dr。 Nicole lays out the foundation for healing so that anyone can start right where they are。 This book felt like several therapy sessions wrapped into one beautiful composition。 Highly recommend for anyone wanting to take a deeper dive into themselves。 It isn’t always an easy read (as self awareness and self reflection can be hard at times) but absolutely worth it。 I will defiantly be coming back to read it a second time in the future and spread its messages to anyone willing to listen。 。。。more

Yara

This book was written by a white woman for other white women。 If you are a person of color, PLEASE stay away from this book, it could do more harm than good。 It seems like the author pulled all her information from tik tok and instagram therapist pages。 Its a gross westernized white "psychoeducational" book。 This book was written by a white woman for other white women。 If you are a person of color, PLEASE stay away from this book, it could do more harm than good。 It seems like the author pulled all her information from tik tok and instagram therapist pages。 Its a gross westernized white "psychoeducational" book。 。。。more

Jennifer Weeks Ph。D

If you are a consumer of the self help genre, this book will not really provide you any new information。 It is packaged nicely, combining science, some how to's and stories from the author's own life。 As a therapist, I could see myself recommending it to some of my clients who may need some inner child work。 She does a nice job of explaining that process。 I can see the book being helpful。When I was almost done with the book, I came across some postings about the author regarding some racial inse If you are a consumer of the self help genre, this book will not really provide you any new information。 It is packaged nicely, combining science, some how to's and stories from the author's own life。 As a therapist, I could see myself recommending it to some of my clients who may need some inner child work。 She does a nice job of explaining that process。 I can see the book being helpful。When I was almost done with the book, I came across some postings about the author regarding some racial insensitivity and commentary regarding implicit bias she displays。 I provide that information not for discussion but to allow a potential reader to make their own decisions。 。。。more

Bre Neumann

I enjoy Nicole’s daily text and Instagram posts to offer free self healing techniques and tools。 Her book took it a step further and gave some specific strategies。 We all experience trauma and are shaped by our childhood, growing in healthy , productive ways out of those experiences and learning to cope and approach relationships from a whole self is beneficial to all。 If only everyone was willing to do the work。

Dan Shelley

I love Nicole and her work! Her IG account “holistic therapist” is what I’ve followed for months and has been a great pathway for some of the most vulnerable work I’ve done in life。 This book helps solidify it and arms me with me tools to face the adversity of life!

Patrick Abrams

This book is going to be the new standard for self care and inner work。 Dr。 LaPera really cuts through the BS and speaks so eloquently and clearly about identity formation and ego, trust and mistrust, and boundaries。 Its great for anyone suffering with enmeshed or codependent relationship, history’s of trauma, or just looking for help developing ones wants and needs。 A really great book by a brave woman。 You’ll feel empowered to 。。。。 ya know。。。。 do the work。

Deborah Martinez

Not for me! This was one of the worst "self help" books I've ever read。 Not for me! This was one of the worst "self help" books I've ever read。 。。。more

Chelsea

The world would be a better place if everyone read this book。

Farida El-gueretly

I think Nicole Lepera did a good job at helping me define what I’m going through and how my childhood experiences with parent figures affected me particularly for someone who didn’t give it too much thought to it over the years。 Is this book for everyone? I don’t know, I think some people will find value in it because Nicole is able to somehow distill big and seemingly complex psychological terminology to more accessible information。 I also think that this is not an exchange for professional hel I think Nicole Lepera did a good job at helping me define what I’m going through and how my childhood experiences with parent figures affected me particularly for someone who didn’t give it too much thought to it over the years。 Is this book for everyone? I don’t know, I think some people will find value in it because Nicole is able to somehow distill big and seemingly complex psychological terminology to more accessible information。 I also think that this is not an exchange for professional help and therapy (which I don’t think she is claiming)。 It really depends on the person, their circumstances and where they are in their self-awareness journey。 。。。more

Emily Plantz

Everyone should read this book。

Sandra Bollow

Did this reading as a continuation of Lindsay Gibson’s books on emotional immaturity。 LePera’s insights are gentle and adaptive to meet each person where they are in their healing journey。 This book expresses activities and journaling exercises to dig deeper within yourself to discover and likely uncover past trauma you may or may not know you had。 I think Gibson’s books have a more professional and scientific tone that give them a sense of authority that I was missing from LePera; however, “How Did this reading as a continuation of Lindsay Gibson’s books on emotional immaturity。 LePera’s insights are gentle and adaptive to meet each person where they are in their healing journey。 This book expresses activities and journaling exercises to dig deeper within yourself to discover and likely uncover past trauma you may or may not know you had。 I think Gibson’s books have a more professional and scientific tone that give them a sense of authority that I was missing from LePera; however, “How to do The Work” gives better examples and descriptions of how to work through your emotions and bad patterns of behavior for happier and healthier living。 When coupled together, these books are truly complimentary and enhance the overall understanding and strategies for growth。 。。。more

Kim Radley

Fantastic book for those wanting to do better and be better。 Trauma isn't final and doesn't have to shape us and this book comes from a place that encompasses everything we are taught to deny in this world。 Nicole truly "gets it" beyond just what we know as Science and delves into what it truly means to be human。 Holistic she most definitely is。。。 Fantastic book for those wanting to do better and be better。 Trauma isn't final and doesn't have to shape us and this book comes from a place that encompasses everything we are taught to deny in this world。 Nicole truly "gets it" beyond just what we know as Science and delves into what it truly means to be human。 Holistic she most definitely is。。。 。。。more

Wendy Jo Spencer

Relevant and NeededHaving read a LOT of books from this genre, to say I was pleasantly surprised to learn my childhood was very similar to the authors。。。 and can be HEALED was exhilarating! Thankful!

Bree

Transformative and utterly amazing。 Dr Nicole has a way with language to make every reader feel like they are reliving their own childhood in multiple ways。 A brilliant book for anyone wanting to heal and continue to evolve in their emotional growth journey。

Mlee

Like many others, I found the holistic psychologist on Instagram。 I typically loathe influencers, and didn’t initially see Nicole as one。 I saw her spreading helpful information within a potentially toxic platform。 Her posts helped me。 Then she said she was writing a book。 I preordered it。 I was excited about it。 When it came I was disappointed - “How to do The Work” was not the title I expected to see on a book that was supposed to be helping people learn about their traumas and self heal。 The Like many others, I found the holistic psychologist on Instagram。 I typically loathe influencers, and didn’t initially see Nicole as one。 I saw her spreading helpful information within a potentially toxic platform。 Her posts helped me。 Then she said she was writing a book。 I preordered it。 I was excited about it。 When it came I was disappointed - “How to do The Work” was not the title I expected to see on a book that was supposed to be helping people learn about their traumas and self heal。 The work? Excuse me? Can we say turn off。 Do trauma survivors need a mental boot camp? A how-to book that reads like plumbing for dummies? Is this the new psychological cross-fit?? So I start reading。。。 from the start Nicole is not a good writer。 The preface and intro were uncomfortably shallow and hard to get through without rolling my eyes。 Is this the same person I followed on Instagram?? “The first step, a surprisingly challenging one, is to begin to imagine a future that looks different from the present。 Close your eyes。 Once you are able to envision a reality alternate to the one you’re living, you’re ready to move forward。” What? What is this vague nonsense I say?? I kept reading and of course there’s some good stuff。 Any person can copy paste enlightening material into a book, sandwich it all together with some bland jelly, and call it their own。 Sure it’s good that people are getting this information, but this book in particular feels kinda。。。 weak。 I’m scratching my head at her anecdotes。 Is this an instructional for privileged white women who think that watching their mothers wring their hands at the kitchen window the ONE DAY their father came home late from work traumatized them? Good lord。In order to see if I’m alone in my disappointment I go to the reviews here and the first one is a one star review claiming the author is a scam artist and has gaslighted BIPOC。 Uh oh。 As much as I want to deny and ignore this, I can’t。 I get to googling and。。。 sure enough, it’s out there。 Many claims from women of color that Nicole has gaslighted them, blocked them, and is ignoring the community all together。 Many claim she hasn’t done enough research in this area, which is crazy it being 2021 and seeing that BIPOC face way higher chances of having to deal with trauma in their lives。 And then, THEN I find out from the internet that Nicole’s partner, “Lolly”, aka Lauren Galvin, was sued and fined by the state of Pennsylvania for pocketing money from her own charity for the homeless! Look her up, you can find many pictures of her wearing virtue signaling shirts and posing with the homeless in order to raise funds that she then pocketed and put into her own bank account。 She was once an inspiring force like Nicole, and as soon as her misdeeds became known and she disappeared, Nicole popped up on Instagram with her own tricky brand of influencing under the guise of helping people。 I just can’t get with this, and I’m writing this review to spread this information because once I learned about this shadiness I feel like it would be wise for people to not give her their money。 I’m all about people learning more about trauma, attachment theory, polyvagal theory, and the helpfulness of many practices like future self journaling and other types of therapeutic “work”。 But there are many other authors out there。 And this shady lady is not trustworthy。 。。。more

Patty

Phenomenal work of art。 An enrichment of beneficial information to be better and do better。 Even loved the fact there was finally names to thoughts, feelings and actions。 Feel seen, heard and listened。 Start doing the work。 You'll thank yourself later。 Phenomenal work of art。 An enrichment of beneficial information to be better and do better。 Even loved the fact there was finally names to thoughts, feelings and actions。 Feel seen, heard and listened。 Start doing the work。 You'll thank yourself later。 。。。more

Max Wosilait

Very amazing book with all types of real life examples about why we act the way we do and the things we can start doing to heal ourselves。 Dr。 Nicole does a great job making you feel at ease and gives you the courage to do the work。

Amanda

Very good。 Only giving it 3 stars because it is introductory and I feel like if you're not at entry level it's a little too basic, but easy read。 Very good。 Only giving it 3 stars because it is introductory and I feel like if you're not at entry level it's a little too basic, but easy read。 。。。more

Elena

If you are interested in the mind/body connection you may be interested in this book。 I have been following the Holistic Psychology Instagram page for a long time and have always enjoyed how she very easily lays out some of the basic tenets of psychology (relationships, boundaries, communication, etc) and how to approach them from a holistic approach and much like traditional therapy (which I have participated in for a couple of years now) she offers tools for coping and for healing - it’s up to If you are interested in the mind/body connection you may be interested in this book。 I have been following the Holistic Psychology Instagram page for a long time and have always enjoyed how she very easily lays out some of the basic tenets of psychology (relationships, boundaries, communication, etc) and how to approach them from a holistic approach and much like traditional therapy (which I have participated in for a couple of years now) she offers tools for coping and for healing - it’s up to you to use them and to do the work。I liked that she went in depth into some of the items I did not understand (the ego work, the vagus nerve)。 Was it a little “ crunchy?”Maybe but I also think that is kind of the idea that it’s braking away from the traditional to find something that worked for her and for others。 As for some of the reviews that said it wasn’t researched there are 87 references。It may not be for everyone, but I enjoyed it and will revisit。 。。。more

Alex Saklar

I was a fan of Dr。 LePera on Instagram before she came out with the book。 Was initially disappointed in the book because it just seemed like one long Instagram caption。 Ended up being ok, but not as much fact-based info as I would have liked。

Rachel

Eye opening read for anyone who want insight into themselves。 Helpful processes to do the work to self heal。

Amber Finnegan

This book is life changing。 If you haven’t read it you should。

Mak Smith

omg changed my lifeLITERALLY such a stellar book that I had to take notes。 She gives everything that she says she will。 I loved this book so much thank you!

Kimarli Allen

A great guide for self healing Very good book, easy to read with life changing tools that can help improve the relationships we have with ourselves and others。

Julie Hansen

2。5/3- I found nothing new in this book。 She identifies as a holistic psychologist and emphasizes that every person is capable of self-healing yet many of the long standing concepts of psychology (CBT, psychodynamic theory etc) were repackaged。 Aside from the scandal that’s affiliated with this author apparently (I have no knowledge of that but it came up in reviews when I looked this book up) I read it with an objective perspective。 Some of the journal prompts she offered were good but again。。 2。5/3- I found nothing new in this book。 She identifies as a holistic psychologist and emphasizes that every person is capable of self-healing yet many of the long standing concepts of psychology (CBT, psychodynamic theory etc) were repackaged。 Aside from the scandal that’s affiliated with this author apparently (I have no knowledge of that but it came up in reviews when I looked this book up) I read it with an objective perspective。 Some of the journal prompts she offered were good but again。。 nothing new or innovative in my perspective。 。。。more

Tiffany

Conflicted。 Earnest writing with some concerning content。 While this review is focused on what troubled me about this book, the 3 stars I chose to give are vibrant stars。 Nicole appears to be an introspective person who has gone deep into her head and heart to unearth why she thinks, acts and behaves in the manner she does (and has historically)。 When this level of personal insight is met with a doctorate in clinical psychology, field experience, and excellent writing skills, the result can be a Conflicted。 Earnest writing with some concerning content。 While this review is focused on what troubled me about this book, the 3 stars I chose to give are vibrant stars。 Nicole appears to be an introspective person who has gone deep into her head and heart to unearth why she thinks, acts and behaves in the manner she does (and has historically)。 When this level of personal insight is met with a doctorate in clinical psychology, field experience, and excellent writing skills, the result can be a very powerful thing。 After reading this book, I got the feeling that Nicole went on a journey of self-discovery and after many years of pain and struggle she came out beaming。 And now she wants to share her process, knowledge and wisdom so that you too, can beam。 While this sounds good on paper and may be the driving force behind her work, I find it’s really not as easy and clean as that。 My following critique is based on my intuition, which the book tells me to trust。 The idea of being a self healer is valid, though I find the way it’s packaged in this book to be concerning。 Yes, healing happens within the self, no one can do it for you, it is deeply personal, however, it simply does not happen on your own。 I often felt mixed messages that led my intuition to have fears related to the power of this book and the impact that it could have on the vulnerable and impressionable people that read it。 We are all vulnerable and impressionable in some ways I think (self included), and I believe folks drawn to self-help topics who are searching- sometimes desperate and longing, for ways to heal, grow and recover, deserve special attention。 I found that Nicole would frequently say things like “you’re your own best healer” but I often found other unspoken messages to be present, messages like, I’m the teacher that can show you the way。 This is the way to do the work。 The more I read on the stronger that feeling got for me。 After reading the book and sitting with my thoughts and feelings, the cover hammered it in。 The title is “How to Do the Work” and it’s written in all caps in a pretty large font size, as is the author’s name。 Hence, I got more confusing vibes。 It made me think, So, I can be a self healer but you are shouting at me with this enormous font that doing the work means following you and what you have written? This is not me shaming anyone for the space they take up。 Yes, Nicole and you and me and all of us, take up as much space as you want and feel you need, I’m giving an example of how my intuition stopped me and caused pause。 There is no single book on doing the work and I found the title to be elitist。 This planet is 4。5 billion years old, there are approximately 6500 languages spoken on earth, so many diverse cultures, various fields of science, do you really think that your content is what constitutes “the work”? A more fitting title to me seemed to be, “How I Did My Work。” Dr。 LePera has become hugely popular and with this fame comes responsibility。 The millions of people that keep up with her on IG are literally called “followers” and that is powerful。 In light of this power, I believe there needs to be (ethical) checks and balances of sorts in place, including a disclaimer stating from the author, this book is not therapy。 It was written by a person who has a doctorate in clinical psychology (and is a retired therapist I gather), and is designed to help empower the reader to actualize growth and change using the *tips* she outlines but this does not = therapy。 I found that not having a clear stance about therapy was like an elephant in the room。 More confusing vibes。 Without this clarity the focus on being a self healer felt like it was shaming to others who can’t be self healers on their own or through following Dr。 LePera and may also need therapy。 For example, the person who reads this book, tries to self heal and implement the tactics outlined but is still unhappy and may think, “What is wrong with me。 Millions of people have read this work and can self heal, why can’t I? I’m such a _____。” Additionally, there are power dynamics in play and I think mentioning and briefly discussing the complex topic of power differentials would have been important to include。 Similarly, I think this book needs a more clarifying position from the author that her path is not necessarily the path to awakening for everyone。 She does have a paragraph and “note on doing the work” but I found the sentence included to “…find your own version…” was not sufficient and needed more detail。 It took courage to share the personal examples she did and doing so illuminated certain concepts and topics, I see the value in what Nicole shared。 What I am saying is that without more clarity (or warning) at the get go and beginning of the book, someone who is impressionable with parallel family dynamics may read this book and feel hyper connected to Nicole and her story and think, I need to do x, y and z like her。 She’s the doctor。 I’m growing, choosing me, cutting off ties to my family and moving to California。 The possibility of this felt scary to me。 I felt worried about the potential damage it could cause to someone trying to “self heal。” I believe and know humans have agency, but to an audience of millions you can’t know where folks are on their path。 Clarifying positions on certain topics are therefore critical in my opinion。 I also wonder if Nicole could have benefited from consulting and hiring a BIPOC mental health professional or colleague with a specialty in social justice and race, to read her book before it was published and have that person write a part in the beginning to the BIPOC community。 Something like, “a note to the BIPOC reader。” Since Dr。 Nicole does not seem or claim to be an expert on social justice or race, the times she mentions certain topics related to BIPOC issues felt disjointed, even if they were meant to be sincere。My intuition had other moments of pause and alarm when I encountered something that didn’t feel right, and when reading certain things that didn’t seem true but were presented as truths。 Page 25 “The reality is this: few of us have any real connection to who we really are, yet we want others to see through all of our layers of self-betrayal and into our core selves。” I have a big problem with the implications of this statement and find it to be loaded and simply untrue。 Where is the data that shows only a few of us are connected to who we are and are you saying this is why we need your book (?) for you to show us the way? I felt scary underlying and hidden messages here。 Page 29 “We are not evolutionarily wired for change。” I think we are。 We may be creatures of habit who fear change but if we weren’t wired for it we could never have adapted and survived。 That is central to evolution。 Page 51 “Anytime an intrinsic need is denied, resentment soon follows。” Disagree。 Sometimes a child may not feel seen or heard for lots of different reasons and I don’t think it automatically leads to resentment。 (There is a thing called good enough parenting too, that would have been nice to see included。) Page 57 “Most of us did not have parent-figures who were able to identify, let alone regulate, their feelings。” Loaded statement again and I question the validity of this (not writing as a defensive parent here, I don’t have kids)。 Where is the data that shows most of us had parents like this? Page 96, last paragraph of the intermittent fasting part, “Anyone with a history of restricted eating patterns should not engage in this practice。” What if someone had anorexia 15 years ago and has not had restricted eating in the last 12 years? Your title and work are teaching us how to “recognize your patterns, heal from your past, + create your self,” so then, shouldn’t a person be able to heal from anorexia? (That whole fasting part was not helpful for lots of reasons。) Page 100 healing with movement and using yoga as the single focus。 How about the low income person who works two jobs and can’t afford yoga (or sleep for 8 hours a day), why not include ideas like marching or running in place, or stretching- accessible content for wheelchair bound readers- as examples too。 The point, things that don’t cost money and are accessible to different bodies。 Chapter 10 on boundaries suggests avoiding using “you” language then the example given on 202 uses “you” six times。 Page 212 language, “If you recognize yourself in this paragraph, I give you permission to put the book down, take a step away, and go back before continuing。” Give you permission- excuse me, what?! This language is in the reparenting chapter (!) and made me feel big control vibes。 Page 217 “There have only been three times in my life when I honored my needs even though it meant that others would be hurt by my decision。” Nicole spent a whole chapter earlier telling us about boundaries and that having and enforcing them may hurt or disappoint others but show up for yourself and do them anyway, and gave examples of when she used them。 A big premise of this book seemed to be specifically about how honoring one’s needs is something that with practice, can accumulate, and leads to change and growth。 The statement that Dr。 Nicole has done this “only” three times had martyr complex undertones to me。 Finally, the last chapter, I was quite excited to read it and for me it was a bum out。 It discusses interdependence and I think that not including a section on service to others was a pretty huge missed opportunity。 Giving back through volunteering and donating your time, resources and/or money to populations, causes and communities in need, and to organizations whose work resonates with you and that you want to support and see grow, are solid ways to establish connection to the collective “we。” Doing something that is *outside of yourself* can connect you to the “we” in a remarkably meaningful way。 I felt like this chapter was more of an ego stroke to readers instead of a way to empower and inspire us to connect to matters that could truly advance the “we。” Posting critical feedback on a platform like this, especially towards a female (I’m a woman too), is weird and uncomfortable because the person it’s directed at cannot respond and it would be cool if there could be a conversation between reviewers and authors。 I do trust my intuition but I also know that confirmation bias is a real thing for many of us, and some of that feels present for me here。 I decided to post this in case anyone could relate to my conflicted feelings and shares a similar tacit experience of the book。 I felt mixed emotions after reading the book because some of the content is fantastic but other vibes were concerning。 Using language from the book to summarize my concern, I’ll say that all in all, while there is good content, I worry there is potential for trauma bonds to be created or exacerbated between a vulnerable and impressionable reader (with a hero worshipper archetype possibly) to someone with strong features of a humanitarian who also sits in an authoritarian position。 I worry that when the air from the highs this book promises, clears, there may be a lot of folks who benefited but also some very hurt people on the other side too。 Dr。 Nicole seems earnest in her writing but the moments that my intuition caused me to pause were more than I felt good about。 Just like no two children live the same childhood, maybe no two readers live the same experience of this book。 Either way, each reality is valid and I think that’s part of the beauty of diversity in human nature。 。。。more

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All but one of her client examples were women。 I wonder if there is a correlation between gender and the sort of people who would take this New Age tripe seriously? :^)