Emotionally Resilient Tweens and Teens: Empowering Your Kids to Navigate Bullying, Teasing, and Social Exclusion

Emotionally Resilient Tweens and Teens: Empowering Your Kids to Navigate Bullying, Teasing, and Social Exclusion

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  • Create Date:2022-08-11 20:21:35
  • Update Date:2025-09-06
  • Status:finish
  • Author:Kim John Payne
  • ISBN:1611805643
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Summary

Essential reading for parents of grade schoolers through teens experiencing bullying, social exclusion, and teasing--with uplifting stories from young adults who have navigated those experiences and triumphed。

The tween and teen years are rife with intense social challenges in school, friendships, sports, and other activities where instances of teasing, bullying, social exclusion and marginalization are unfortunately all too common。 Social media has only made this behavior easier and more insidious。 But when kids ages 9 and up can be coached by a parent to respond effectively, manage their emotions in social situations, and recognize their own self-worth, they can reclaim a sense of their own power and develop skills like resilience, social and emotional intelligence and compassion for life。

Kim John Payne, a leading education consultant and parenting expert, and Luis Fernando Llosa, a writer and longtime sports coach, offer guidance and practical advice to parents, along with ten inspirational stories in the voice of young adults who have navigated bullying, teasing and social exclusion--and triumphed。 The Emotionally Resilient Child gives tweens and teens the tools to address the problem themselves and develop mastery over the situation--rather than having parents step in and try to fix things。 This book also gives parents vital proactive strategies to help build strong family relationships, trust and connection, so that kids can be better prepared for the inevitable social challenges life brings。

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Reviews

Rochelle

I will read anything Kim John Payne writes。 I have followed his parenting books since my children were toddlers, and now that they are tweens and teens this book could not be more timely for me。 What I love about Kim John Payne’s writing style is that he engages you from the beginning, his writing is clear, concise, easy to understand and put into practice。 I feel that sometimes parenting books fall short on giving you tools to implement in everyday life。 You often leave a book and don’t know ho I will read anything Kim John Payne writes。 I have followed his parenting books since my children were toddlers, and now that they are tweens and teens this book could not be more timely for me。 What I love about Kim John Payne’s writing style is that he engages you from the beginning, his writing is clear, concise, easy to understand and put into practice。 I feel that sometimes parenting books fall short on giving you tools to implement in everyday life。 You often leave a book and don’t know how to put it into practice。 Kim John Payne always has more than enough examples and scripts so that you can feelconfident putting things into practice。 I love that you can choose scenarios that work for you and practice them confidently。 I know will be coming back to this book over the next few years as I raise my tweens and teens。 。。。more

Katie / Thebookwormteacher

Thank you @netgalley and Shambhala Publications for the advanced readers copy of this book!PUB DATE: August 9, 2022I was originally drawn to this book as a teacher who works with tweens, as well as a parent who will eventually have tweens/teens。 A ton happens emotionally and developmentally during this time frame, and it can be an extremely formative time frame。 I appreciated how this novel drew from individuals (now college-aged) who experienced challenges with bullying, social exclusion, and/o Thank you @netgalley and Shambhala Publications for the advanced readers copy of this book!PUB DATE: August 9, 2022I was originally drawn to this book as a teacher who works with tweens, as well as a parent who will eventually have tweens/teens。 A ton happens emotionally and developmentally during this time frame, and it can be an extremely formative time frame。 I appreciated how this novel drew from individuals (now college-aged) who experienced challenges with bullying, social exclusion, and/or teasing during their tween/teen years。I’m not going to lie, at times it felt extremely cookie cutter (for example, the dialogue between parent and child felt too scripted), but otherwise I was able to pull out quite a few strategies for how to approach socially challenging situations as a parent and educator。 I liked the slight variety in scenarios; you could easily pick up this book and use whatever scenario is most applicable to your current situation。 I did find some were very similar to each other, which could feel redundant at times。One thing I did not agree with was the author’s statement that kids now a days use the term “bullying” very seriously。 From my personal experience, I have noticed the opposite。 I have had many conversations and lessons on what is the difference between being rude/nasty, mean, hurtful, and what is bullying。 I have many students who yell “they’re bullying me” when one mean comment is said to them。 Yet that is just my personal experience。3。5 rounded to 4。 。。。more