The School for Good Mothers

The School for Good Mothers

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  • Author:Jessamine Chan
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Summary

In this taut and explosive debut novel, one lapse in judgement lands a young mother in a government reform program where custody of her child hangs in the balance。

Frida Liu is struggling。 She doesn’t have a career worthy of her Chinese immigrant parents’ sacrifices。 She can’t persuade her husband, Gust, to give up his wellness-obsessed younger mistress。 Only with Harriet, their cherubic daughter, does Frida finally attain the perfection expected of her。 Harriet may be all she has, but she is just enough。

Until Frida has a very bad day。

The state has its eyes on mothers like Frida。 The ones who check their phones, letting their children get injured on the playground; who let their children walk home alone。 Because of one moment of poor judgment, a host of government officials will now determine if Frida is a candidate for a Big Brother-like institution that measures the success or failure of a mother’s devotion。

Faced with the possibility of losing Harriet, Frida must prove that a bad mother can be redeemed。 That she can learn to be good。

A searing page-turner that is also a transgressive novel of ideas about the perils of “perfect” upper-middle class parenting; the violence enacted upon women by both the state and, at times, one another; the systems that separate families; and the boundlessness of love, The School for Good Mothers introduces, in Frida, an everywoman for the ages。 Using dark wit to explore the pains and joys of the deepest ties that bind us, Chan has written a modern literary classic。

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Reviews

Karen Cohn

This was an odd, disquieting novel, written in an abrupt style that was initially difficult to read。 I had some trouble getting into this novel initially, but once I was past the first several chapters it became more compelling。 In a very near future, parents who commit minor infractions against their children - a moment of inattention, a single instance of poor judgement that causes no injury, even using a child’s cousin as a babysitter - can have their children taken away by the court system, This was an odd, disquieting novel, written in an abrupt style that was initially difficult to read。 I had some trouble getting into this novel initially, but once I was past the first several chapters it became more compelling。 In a very near future, parents who commit minor infractions against their children - a moment of inattention, a single instance of poor judgement that causes no injury, even using a child’s cousin as a babysitter - can have their children taken away by the court system, and can the be given the option to attend a year-long parent training course in hopes of regaining custody。 This novel focuses on the experiences of one such mother as she is placed in the initial class of such a school - a school which teaches parenting skills to purportedly poor parents, using many methods to teach adults which they would decry were they to be used by those parents with their own children。 。。。more

Flannery Buchanan

4。5 stars。 I think。 Gah I’m still thinking about it。 Started out triggering—child neglect, possible mental illness。 Turned into a dystopian commentary in the expectations of women in today’s culture。 I’ll be thinking about this for days。

Carol

Reads like a dsytopian novel with ramifications for our world today。A young mother has one lapse in judgement sending her for a year long stay in a reform program。I could not put this book down, the story kept making me want to read one more page。Any mother would probably have empathy for the protagonist and the way society sets up unrealistic standards for motherhood and judge women more harshly as parents。I have already added this book to my list of discussion books for my book group。Trust me, Reads like a dsytopian novel with ramifications for our world today。A young mother has one lapse in judgement sending her for a year long stay in a reform program。I could not put this book down, the story kept making me want to read one more page。Any mother would probably have empathy for the protagonist and the way society sets up unrealistic standards for motherhood and judge women more harshly as parents。I have already added this book to my list of discussion books for my book group。Trust me, you will want to discuss it once you read it! 。。。more

Jill Tait

A super fascinating horrifying premise but far too hopeless to enjoy。

Kathy

In a dystopian near future where vigilante justice - eerily similar to the new Texas abortion law - allows ordinary citizens to report someone to the state for bad parenting, The School For Bad Mothers shows a disturbing glimpse into a possible future。 Conceptually, this was a great idea。 There were so many plot elements that were scary because of the possibility that this could be our future。 But the actions at the main character Frida that got her in trouble in the first place didn’t engender In a dystopian near future where vigilante justice - eerily similar to the new Texas abortion law - allows ordinary citizens to report someone to the state for bad parenting, The School For Bad Mothers shows a disturbing glimpse into a possible future。 Conceptually, this was a great idea。 There were so many plot elements that were scary because of the possibility that this could be our future。 But the actions at the main character Frida that got her in trouble in the first place didn’t engender the sympathy I think that was needed to root for her。 I couldn’t really get past that。 Still a good, engaging story。 3 1/2 stars。 。。。more

Kim Barbella

The School For Good Mothers By: Jessamine Chan Pub。 date: January 4, 2022Review date: January 10, 2022Many thanks to Simon & Schuster, Jessamine Chan & NetGalley, for allowing me early access to this arc。。 I’m leaving my review voluntarily。Wowwwww… Jessamine Chan has pulled from me more emotions than I knew existed! It’s Rare a book gives me So Many feels but this one here is Something Else altogether。。 Also, I was born, raised & actually Still reside in South Philly & the story just happens to The School For Good Mothers By: Jessamine Chan Pub。 date: January 4, 2022Review date: January 10, 2022Many thanks to Simon & Schuster, Jessamine Chan & NetGalley, for allowing me early access to this arc。。 I’m leaving my review voluntarily。Wowwwww… Jessamine Chan has pulled from me more emotions than I knew existed! It’s Rare a book gives me So Many feels but this one here is Something Else altogether。。 Also, I was born, raised & actually Still reside in South Philly & the story just happens to take place right here in my hometown。 This is a semi-dystopian take on a real-life scenario, one more common than most would believe。 I’m giving The School For Good Mothers 5 stars & will encourage Everyone who enjoys a good dystopian, (mostly) fictional story with many true to life themes。 I Can’t Wait to see what Jessamine Chan thinks of for her next novel!#TheSchoolForGoodMothers #NetGalley#JessamineChan #SimonAndSchuster 。。。more

Jennifer

3。75

Ashley

The School for Good Mothers is a Read with Jenna pick。 I was in the mood for a dystopian read and this one certainly filled that genre! This book is about what happens when the government controls parenting。 The main character in this story makes a bad choice and has a “bad day” that results in her being sent to a school for unfit parents。 Frida, the main character, leaves her child unattended to go to her office to get something she forgot。 Despite the child being ok, Frida is sent to the schoo The School for Good Mothers is a Read with Jenna pick。 I was in the mood for a dystopian read and this one certainly filled that genre! This book is about what happens when the government controls parenting。 The main character in this story makes a bad choice and has a “bad day” that results in her being sent to a school for unfit parents。 Frida, the main character, leaves her child unattended to go to her office to get something she forgot。 Despite the child being ok, Frida is sent to the school for good mothers and her relationship with her child is never the same again。 I found myself asking questions such as, “Who should be a parent?” “Why are mothers held to a different standard than fathers?” And “How does this school end up being so out of touch with reality?” This is a great book for discussion as the reader is presented with many different situations to ponder。 。。。more

Erin

It takes a lot for me to actually cry when reading a book。 I have to be perfectly in tune with the characters and really able to feel the despair or sorrow being described。 Jessamine Chan was able to pull out all sorts of emotions from me while reading this book: frustration, longing, anxiety。 This is the mark of a truly talented writer in my mind。The main character, Frida, makes the inarguable mistake of leaving her toddler home alone while she runs an errand。 She's reported to CPS and is requi It takes a lot for me to actually cry when reading a book。 I have to be perfectly in tune with the characters and really able to feel the despair or sorrow being described。 Jessamine Chan was able to pull out all sorts of emotions from me while reading this book: frustration, longing, anxiety。 This is the mark of a truly talented writer in my mind。The main character, Frida, makes the inarguable mistake of leaving her toddler home alone while she runs an errand。 She's reported to CPS and is required to defend her parenting abilities。 In this futuristic story, Frida is mandated to spend one year in a school for mothers who have also proven to be less than perfect mothers。 She's tasked with impossible tests, day in and out, all in the name of receiving custody when she is released。I am not a mother but I was so able to clearly fit into Frida's shoes because her desperation to be better and her commitment to her family is universal。 This book reads like a horror novel at times (no gore, just shock at what the mothers are made to endure), a dystopian novel, and a cautionary tale of what could happen if we as a culture become consumed by the idea that there is a model for what a perfect parent (and person) should be。This book will stay with me for a long time, and even after the tears, I'll be eagerly anticipating Chan's future work。*Free ARC provided by Netgalley and the publisher in exchange for an honest review* 。。。more

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Angie Jenkins

This is a story about bad mothers, who are learning to be good?Who are you supposed to root for here? The writing feels ambivalent- as though perhaps we are not supposed to root for anyone? Also- I’m pretty sure this is how the robot uprising starts。 While this was clearly not for me, the author is obviously really talented and I’ll totally read things she writes in the future。 Thank you so much Netgalley and Simon & Schuster for the eArc!⭐️ ⭐️。 💫 rounded to 3。

Miranda Cheers

As a new mother, this book was hard to read- yet so very, very important to have done so。 I haven’t cried over a story in a long time。 I hugged my little one a little tighter after I read the last page, and let him know that no one will ever take him from me。 The pressure on mothers today is aptly outlined in this book。 The dystopian “School for Good Mothers” is frightening because it doesn’t seem like it’s too far of a stretch。

Mary Lins

HOLY COW! “The School for Good Mothers”, by Jessamine Chan, is a GUT-PUNCH to everyone who may be “looking away” from how authoritarian our society/government is becoming。 That the author is a Chinese-American woman lends this dystopian shocker additional credibility。 Could this happen here? You betcha。Set in the not-so-distant future, single-mother, Frida Liu, is having a very bad day with her toddler Harriet, who has been up all night sick and crying。 She makes a horrendously bad choice to lea HOLY COW! “The School for Good Mothers”, by Jessamine Chan, is a GUT-PUNCH to everyone who may be “looking away” from how authoritarian our society/government is becoming。 That the author is a Chinese-American woman lends this dystopian shocker additional credibility。 Could this happen here? You betcha。Set in the not-so-distant future, single-mother, Frida Liu, is having a very bad day with her toddler Harriet, who has been up all night sick and crying。 She makes a horrendously bad choice to leave Harriet to go get coffee, and stays away much too long。Chan was smart to have Frida’s transgression be bad enough that the reader DOES judge her。 Frida does need help and to realize how utterly inappropriate her choices were that very bad day。 Frida does realize this, but it’s too late, and not enough for the “new CPS” which has established “schools” for parenting。 The “school” that Frida is sent to for one year (with the hope of gaining her parental rights back at the end) is clearly a “re-education camp” run like a prison (the fence is electrified)。 If Frida fails to become a “good mother” within the ridged parameters of the curriculum, her parental rights will be permanently terminated and she will go on a “registry” very similar to the current sex offenders registry。Things that can land a mother in the school: failure to vaccinate your child, complaining too much on Twitter, allowing your eight-year-old walk a few block home alone from the library。The idea that “every child is different…every parent is different” is blasphemy in this super-creepy world where there is only ONE WAY to raise American children and it’s the way the government says。 Chan even takes on Critical Race Theory and its ramifications。I couldn’t put this book down and I’m so glad it’s getting additional attention due to Jenna’s Book Club; its timely and important。 。。。more

Trisha Zeller

WTF? Dystopian/ Lord-of-the-flies weirdness that gave me very odd dreams。

Alissa

DNF (DID NOT FINISH)Three chapters in and I can't take another moment of this book。 The story starts off with a mom who leaves her 18-month-old awake in an exersaucer at home alone for HOURS while she gets coffee, goes to the office to check emails and I dont even know what else。 That's objectively awful, but I think the author wants us to think that's not so bad? Frida is a single mom whose husband left her while she was pregnant and there's some other details that the author adds in an effort DNF (DID NOT FINISH)Three chapters in and I can't take another moment of this book。 The story starts off with a mom who leaves her 18-month-old awake in an exersaucer at home alone for HOURS while she gets coffee, goes to the office to check emails and I dont even know what else。 That's objectively awful, but I think the author wants us to think that's not so bad? Frida is a single mom whose husband left her while she was pregnant and there's some other details that the author adds in an effort to make the reader feel for the mom。 And I do feel for her, but it also makes the book too depressing。 I'm only three chapters in and I haven't even gotten to the actual "school for good mothers" that I'm guessing she will be "sentenced" to。 But it's January and my reading resolution is to quit books when I hate them, so I'm moving on。。。。 。。。more

Kace

Me this whole book:That is all。 Oh, also I hated every character and the end made me cry。 This was just torture。 Me this whole book:That is all。 Oh, also I hated every character and the end made me cry。 This was just torture。 。。。more

Michelle Reichart

I had to stop reading this novel several times to process the horror of what was happening to the mothers in this novel。 The School For Good Mothers by Jessamine Chan is a train wreck that I couldn't look away from。 Great writing, tight editing and good pacing make this book readable even though the subject matter is disturbing。 In the near future, a parent who has has failed, whether on purpose or by neglect, abuse or other offenses as determined by the state, will attend a school to hopefully I had to stop reading this novel several times to process the horror of what was happening to the mothers in this novel。 The School For Good Mothers by Jessamine Chan is a train wreck that I couldn't look away from。 Great writing, tight editing and good pacing make this book readable even though the subject matter is disturbing。 In the near future, a parent who has has failed, whether on purpose or by neglect, abuse or other offenses as determined by the state, will attend a school to hopefully be reunified with their child。 The school is dehumanizing and shows how good intentions to reform people can go horribly wrong。 A definite read。 。。。more

SJ Riggs

So sad

Sasha

Overall, I really liked this! I was super intrigued by the premise, and it delivered! Very very readable though incredibly morbid - I tried to avoid reading it right before bed。 An infuriating and heartbreaking take on the absolute fuckery that is the child welfare system。 I imagine a lot of people will read this this year and I’m excited to discuss! Fun to read something right as it’s published and not go into with too much info or hype which I bet this book will get!

Erica

This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers。 To view it, click here。 Slow start, picks up and makes you wonder if this is really what the future hold for those deemed bad mothers。

Michelle Perruzzi

My first read of 2022 and it’s a five star rating, hands down。I first want to thank Simon & Schuster for the complimentary copy of this book to read in exchange for my honest review!I see a lot of 3 and 4 star reviews on this and I have to start by saying this book hits different if you are a parent vs。 if you have no children。 It’s ALSO important for future potential readers to be aware of TW (cps/dcf, child loss/miscarriage, abuse, PPD/PPA, suicide)。“By staying calm, they’re showing their chil My first read of 2022 and it’s a five star rating, hands down。I first want to thank Simon & Schuster for the complimentary copy of this book to read in exchange for my honest review!I see a lot of 3 and 4 star reviews on this and I have to start by saying this book hits different if you are a parent vs。 if you have no children。 It’s ALSO important for future potential readers to be aware of TW (cps/dcf, child loss/miscarriage, abuse, PPD/PPA, suicide)。“By staying calm, they’re showing their child that a mother can handle anything。 A mother is always patient。 A mother is always giving。 A mother never falls apart。 A mother is the buffer between her child and the cruel world。”A great book, in my opinion, should start up a rollercoaster of emotions。 I want to go from happy to sad to infuriated to hopeful, but always on the edge of my seat。 Jessamine Chan put me on that ride and fully engaged the entire way through。 It left me thinking deeply of how children pay the ultimate price for the decisions made by complete strangers who may or may not be properly qualified to make such decisions。 Decisions made in the “best interest” of the minor child or children。 I see it often in my job field and it’s heartbreaking。 This book is harsh reality with a fantastic and disturbing mix of the technological future we’re not too far away from。I thought her method of weaving the social stigmas of “bad mothers” and “good mothers” was equally fantastic。 No matter what we do as moms, society finds a way to demonize us。 You need a break? Bad mom。 You let your kid eat McDonalds instead of cage free chicken, green beans fresh from your garden? Bad mom。 There were great examples of how intense and judgmental women are toward other women despite how similar our battles are because of our egos。 All in all, I thought this book was fantastic and I’m looking forward to purchasing a physical copy for my personal library。 。。。more

Lee Cohen

I have no idea why I kept reading。 The premise is preposterous。 The characters barely qualify as two dimensional。 Every possible emotional wrench in the tool box gets thrown。 Maybe, had there been some deeper message about society, or the role of women, or gender or…。anything?Nope。Women in pink lab coats?🤦‍♀️

Liz

3。75 starsThis book focuses on a future where mothers are sent to a year long school that tells them they are bad mothers, but can learn to be good。 Frida is sent to the school after having “a bad day” and leaving her child, a toddler, at home alone for 2 hours。 Her daughter is taken away and given to her cheater ex husband and new girlfriend。 The experience for mothers at the school is terrible, including testing, evaluations and bonding Ex we used with toddler robots, little to no access to th 3。75 starsThis book focuses on a future where mothers are sent to a year long school that tells them they are bad mothers, but can learn to be good。 Frida is sent to the school after having “a bad day” and leaving her child, a toddler, at home alone for 2 hours。 Her daughter is taken away and given to her cheater ex husband and new girlfriend。 The experience for mothers at the school is terrible, including testing, evaluations and bonding Ex we used with toddler robots, little to no access to their real kids, and oppressive monitoring。 Women are placed there for everything from coddling their kids too much , to “gentle burns” on Children’s bodies to allowing a 12 year old to babysit their baby。 This book brings up so much that can be discussed from What makes a good mother to how we judge others and how they parent。 I thought the writing overall was great though the middle dragged a bit。 Again, a good book for a book club though slower paced and tough to read as a mom to two young kids。 。。。more

Anna Whitmore

Frida has a bad day which ends up with her being sent to the “school for good mothers”。 Bad mothers are sent to the school to learn how to be good mothers。 The idea of this book was really strong but it didn’t quite live up to the concept。 The book felt very repetitive and never really had a climax。 It was really depressing and I never felt any hope。 I also didn’t understand and couldn’t relate to a lot of the choices Frida made。 Some parts felt a little too over the top whereas other places jus Frida has a bad day which ends up with her being sent to the “school for good mothers”。 Bad mothers are sent to the school to learn how to be good mothers。 The idea of this book was really strong but it didn’t quite live up to the concept。 The book felt very repetitive and never really had a climax。 It was really depressing and I never felt any hope。 I also didn’t understand and couldn’t relate to a lot of the choices Frida made。 Some parts felt a little too over the top whereas other places just feel flat。 This book should definitely have a trigger warning for mothers。 If you are sensitive or have young children this probably isn’t the book for you。 。。。more

Rebekah

This book started out promising and then veered off into a dystopian world of mothering school。 I am not interested in dystopian worlds right now so I gave up after 100 pages。

Kristyn

I am so glad I didn't let the bad reviews deter me from reading this book。 I sat down to start it this morning and didn't put it down until I finished it。In Jessamine Chan's debut dystopian novel, Frida Lui makes a huge parenting mistake。 She is separated from her daughter and sent to a school to find out how to be a good mother。This story is so emotional。 I really felt for Frida and everything she went through。 Chan made Frida seem so real and rich that I felt like I really knew her。 The parts I am so glad I didn't let the bad reviews deter me from reading this book。 I sat down to start it this morning and didn't put it down until I finished it。In Jessamine Chan's debut dystopian novel, Frida Lui makes a huge parenting mistake。 She is separated from her daughter and sent to a school to find out how to be a good mother。This story is so emotional。 I really felt for Frida and everything she went through。 Chan made Frida seem so real and rich that I felt like I really knew her。 The parts at the school made me sad and very angry。 I could feel Frida's pain and heartache。 While, I do not agree with what Frida did, I also could not condone her extreme punishment。 This is scary as it seems like something that could actually happen。 I thought this was a well-written story with a lot of substance that gave me a lot to think about。 There are several layers to this story and issues to unpack here。 I think all parents have made mistakes, some of which could easily get them sent to this school。 What constitutes as something bad enough to have your child ripped from your life? In some cases, not much。 I haven't read very many dystopian novels, but I'm so glad I read this one。 I loved this book and I look forward to reading more by Jessamine Chan。 。。。more

Anna Denys

Okay, with peace and love, a lot of the lower star reviews are annoying me and I feel like those readers missed the point entirely。 Yes, Frida makes a huge mistake as a mother which could have caused things for Harriet to end poorly。 However, I think the author is still forgiving to her because you are supposed to examine and evaluate the overall situation of her life leading up to that day that caused her to fuck up。 Next you compare it to the way that fathers/white mothers get forgiveness and Okay, with peace and love, a lot of the lower star reviews are annoying me and I feel like those readers missed the point entirely。 Yes, Frida makes a huge mistake as a mother which could have caused things for Harriet to end poorly。 However, I think the author is still forgiving to her because you are supposed to examine and evaluate the overall situation of her life leading up to that day that caused her to fuck up。 Next you compare it to the way that fathers/white mothers get forgiveness and leniency when their children are blatantly being harmed。 Then you look at how her and other racialized mothers/lower class mothers are asked to meet unfeasible standards/do impossible tasks like love sickness away。 Frida has a semi-legitimate reason to have her kid taken, but you are supposed to start to question where to draw the line, who can we forgive, who can’t we trust and why, what is actually best for children, what is the role of the state in the process, how does this reflect on historic and current racial violence, etc。 There is repetition in the novel, but imo it’s not in the least bit overwhelming or annoying, rather a smart stylistic choice that pairs well with the monotony of institutionalization and how it impacts her psyche over time。 Allows casual readers who aren’t as well versed in close reading to pick up on things like word and symbol repetition that they may otherwise miss。 I also hope that future readers try to not read this as a “Handmaid’s Tale wannabe,” and instead look at the greater critique it’s making on the child welfare/foster care system, the treatment of individuals with mental illness, and frankly, the prison industrial complex。 。。。more

Jane Dennish

I am having a hard time putting my thoughts together for this book。 The concept and topic is intriguing。 It definitely is going to be a great book discussion book。 There are so many thoughts I had while reading this book and it made me question my own beliefs and opinions, like what does abuse look like and what does it mean to be a good mother。 I cannot imagine being a mother and reading this book。 However, there are parts of the book that didn't hold up for me。 I feel like the main character's I am having a hard time putting my thoughts together for this book。 The concept and topic is intriguing。 It definitely is going to be a great book discussion book。 There are so many thoughts I had while reading this book and it made me question my own beliefs and opinions, like what does abuse look like and what does it mean to be a good mother。 I cannot imagine being a mother and reading this book。 However, there are parts of the book that didn't hold up for me。 I feel like the main character's time at the school was longer than it needed to be in terms of the amount of time devoted to it。 Other parts felt rushed, and I know that was the point of the book, but it felt like it was the same idea over and over。 I also felt like different themes were incorporated, but they were not expanded on enough for them to be included。 It felt like the book was doing too much。 。。。more

Natalie Sanchez

Frida Liu had a very bad day。 She left her eighteen-month-old daughter Harriette at home while she went to the local coffee shop for an iced coffee。 What was meant to be a 10 minute trip to the coffee shop turned into a two-hour abandonment? Emergency removal of Harriette takes place and Frida is sent to a new reform program for bad mothers for an entire year。 “Now, repeat after me: I am a bad mother, but I am learning to be good” Frida’s entire life gets scrutinized by the courts。 What was it l Frida Liu had a very bad day。 She left her eighteen-month-old daughter Harriette at home while she went to the local coffee shop for an iced coffee。 What was meant to be a 10 minute trip to the coffee shop turned into a two-hour abandonment? Emergency removal of Harriette takes place and Frida is sent to a new reform program for bad mothers for an entire year。 “Now, repeat after me: I am a bad mother, but I am learning to be good” Frida’s entire life gets scrutinized by the courts。 What was it like growing up? What were you doing on the day of the incident? Why did you leave her at home? Do you let her watch television? An endless scrutinization。 Frida falls into a ceaseless “I should have” shame spiral。 It’s honestly something I’ve struggled with myself。 Constantly questioning whether you’re doing the right thing for your child, always second-guessing yourself, always thinking you should have done something different。 The School takes on a prison-like feeling right from the start。 She’s not allowed anything from home, she’s only allowed to wear the “school” uniform, guards are in rotation, weekly phone calls home (if she’s lucky), and constant video monitoring。“She is a bad mother among other bad mothers。 She neglected and abandoned her child。 She has no history, no other identity” One mother locked her 6 kids in a hole in the floor。 Another was there because her daughter broke her arm sliding down a slide。 Another whose daughter had bruises on her arms, another lost custody when she turned herself into the psych ward。 The mothers gossip incessantly about each other。 They obviously all made terrible mistakes, some worse than others, but it's questionable whether they deserve to be sent to what I feel is a prison for mothers。 The mothers go through a series of classes of psychological torture。 It’s honestly disturbing。 It’s like Squid Games meets some kind of dystopian robot movie。 The mothers must prove their good mothering by completing each unit assessment perfectly。 If they pass, they are allowed the privilege of a 10-minute video call with their family。 This book is very terrifying and downright disturbing but also eye-opening。 It questions what it means to be a mother in today’s modern world。 What determines a good mother from a bad mother? It criticizes the expectations society has on mothers as well as what mothers expect of each other and of themselves。 。。。more